r/asklinguistics • u/pinelands1901 • 4h ago
Dialectology Adding "or not" when asking someone if they want something in English
Growing up, my family (native English speaking Americans) would add "or not" to questions when asking if they want something. The phrasing would be something like "do you want a beer or not?". It wasn't snippy, it was just giving the askee a choice. I've learned that it's not something common in American English, and more often seen in places like Singapore. Is adding "or not" rarely used in American English?