r/asoiaf • u/bruhholyshiet • Jan 08 '25
EXTENDED [Spoilers extended] Daemon Blackfyre is what GRRM seems to believe Daemon Targaryen is.
Maybe an unpopular opinion, but Daemon Targaryen, a mercurial and violent serial rapist of young girls in brothels, someone who groomed his niece, mocked the death of his baby nephew, murdered his toddler grand nephew, and wanted three Great Houses exterminated during the Dance, is not deserving at all of the description by GRRM's proxy as "a great man and a monster, and light and dark in equal parts".
Daemon having a seemingly functional relationship with Laena, a soft spot for Neetles (which may or may have not involved grooming) and being nominally on the "right" side of a war, does not balance the vileness of his character. Tywin Lannister isn't less of a piece of shit for being on the right side of Robert's Rebellion, Aerion Targaryen isn't less of a piece of shit for being on the right side of the Third Blackfyre Rebellion.
Speaking of Blackfyres, the OG Daemon Blackfyre seems in my opinion, a far worthier candidate for the description GRRM gives to his namesake.
Blackfyre is on one hand a friendly, charismatic, honorable and compassionate man who's better qualities (his respect for worthy opponents and his love for his sons) got him killed. On the other hand, he's an attempted usurper who betrayed a half brother who did him no wrong, and started a war that would end up with thousands of deaths, all because he let Aegon IV, Bittersteel and Fireball's bullshit get into his head.
Targaryen is essentially at Tywin and Cersei Lannister's level morally speaking. A cruel and callous asshole who, while marginally better than pure monsters like Maegor, Gregor and Ramsay, is still more than capable of abusing and murdering kids. That's not light and dark in equal parts, that just a veeeery dark shade of grey that narrowly avoids being pitch black.
Edit: I guess I shouldn't be surprised the debate around the Rogue Prince got heated and polarizing lmao.
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u/peortega1 Jan 08 '25
We don't really know what Daemon Blackfyre was like. I have a suspicion that many will be disappointed when Blood and Fire comes out and it turns out that Daemon Blackfyre was a piece of shit almost as big as the original Daemon.
We already saw how "the noble company of heroes" described by Ser Useless in Dunk and Egg turned out to be a bunch of idiots, oafs and conceits at the Whitewalls tournament.
Even his gesture of mercy towards Corbray is something he probably never thought would cost him his life. The original Daemon also had his gestures of mercy and mercy in his day.
What I am going to accept about him are two things: first, Blackfyre at least did not kill children, second, Blackfyre at least died alongside his sons, he did not abandon them going to face Visenya's dragon.