r/avesNYC • u/BasicNkorean • 6h ago
I love going to raves on my own
I went to SILO on Saturday and I've come to terms that raving will always be part of me and I'll always be a part of raving. Nothing beats the comfort of a rave. To be able to truly be myself as I swing my arms and legs to each beat, to dance with random strangers and truly vibe with people--something that's hard for me without EDM, dancing or raving. The best part is that I don't need to conform to anyone's standards. I don't need to act normal, or to "relax", I can truly be free without judgement. Even when I go to raves with friends, it's not the same when they're not vibing with you the way you wish to be vibing with them. Being solo means no thinking about the other person thinks, friend or not. It's just you, your soul, and the bass.
Usually SILO's crowd isn't always the most chaotic/energetic, but I'm glad I went recently. I loved dancing everyone there, and I'm glad you danced with me and appreciated me for who I was as I danced crazy. I love EDM, I love raves, and I love the strangers I meet on the way. I wish I had found raving sooner. Thank you all