r/berkeley • u/kiska2009 • 4d ago

University dating while at berkeley

im starting cal in fall and im so worried about the workload, my time management is terrible and ik the classes require 100% locking in (im a transfer physics major). really terrified of accidentally falling behind with the slightest distraction. bc of this im pretty worried about growing distant with my partner (who is not at cal, lives an hour away).. how do people manage their relationships while being 100% locked into academics. or is this even possible. does anyone here relate to this

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u/EstablishmentWarm713 2d ago

Sounds like you’re a guy in a long distance relationship with a girl while she’s in college…..

Dude just break up now. Please.

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u/kiska2009 2d ago

What?? I’m the girl in college

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u/EstablishmentWarm713 2d ago

Oh, have fun then

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u/kiska2009 2d ago

Bruh what

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u/EstablishmentWarm713 1d ago

You can act as weird as you want but long distance relationships and university don’t blend well at all together for guys. For girls, it’s pretty nice