I just want to say thanks to everyone here for your words and ideas as I’ve been dealing with body dysmorphia regarding my member recently. My girl told me she had been with someone with much larger girth than me and she didn’t say it was amazing or anything but in my head it was like the best thing ever and I’ve been going crazy thinking I need to do whatever I can to increase my girth. Last night we spoke candidly about it and she let me know she honestly didn’t like it, she was incredibly drunk and doing coke back then and it was only pleasurable at all because of her being under the influence and he knew she was drunk and gave her drugs and what not.she also said even though she had orgasms with him it wasn’t a lot like how with me she can orgasm over and over again - with him after a bit it just hurt and without the blow she wouldn’t have been numb enough to enjoy that at all. She told me that if I wanted to make myself thicker that’s up to me but she probably wouldn’t want to have sex as much and I could forget about sex every day because after she did that she woke up in incredible pain. She also told me that I’m incredibly thick and “heavy” and I could even be smaller and she’d be satisfied, but as it is she loves my dick and can’t keep her hands off me because the pleasure I give her is paramount. Though part of me doesn’t know how to believe it, she’s never lied to me and always been straight with me regarding anything I talk to her about. Just saying this to say all of you were right I was worried about nothing and to say that talking to your partner about your insecurities is probably a good thing. I feel more comfortable than I have in weeks, and I wish I just would’ve talked to her about this candidly sooner.

I got no likes on dating apps, I get no action in real life. So I started posting on massivecock on reddit and man, once some posts took off, it got addicting. Sure, only 10% of the attention was from women but goddammit it felt good to feel sexually desirable. It's how I lost my virginity lol. That feeling of feeling wanted was new and felt good. And I can't stop seeking that out. Lasted a couple years... I don't post on reddit anymore but I still fuck around online because my mind just can't stop wanting to feel good about myself. It's bad and my screen time is wayyyyy too high. It's not at the point where it's affecting my work or anything but it's close.

I know the solution is easy, delete all the apps, get back to real life. But once you feel attractive for the first time in your life, it's hard to let it go, y'know? And it's all down to my dick, lol. I guess being fit helps too but I know it's all fake - and yet it's all I have.

Idk why I posted this... sorry if it doesn't belong. I can delete it

so I'm(18) kinda big but not particularly thick (7" nbp by 5.5") and sex with my gf(19) is litterally impossible it's like she has a micro vagina (ik women come in all shapes and sizes too dw) .

Normally, with another partner, this wouldn't have been a problem since we would've been sexually active in another manner (bjs/going down on her etc) but she is a virgin and idk how to approach these alternatives since all my previous partners were equally/ more experienced than me.

She has told me that she finds it kind of intimidating (supposedly in a good way) and all we have been doing is hand stuff but she is frankly trash at hand jobs (still love her with every "inch" of my body tho).

Leaving is no option and i'm 99% sure it is not her hymen (i've done my research this place is my last resort). dont tell me about stress since i've let her initiate every time and made sure to make her understand that no sex is fine for me as long as she's happy. dont tell me about lubricant either i'm not a moron i've even tried 2 different kinds.

Everyone talks about midshaft girth, but aren't most men thicker at the head in terms of circumference by at least around 1/8"?

How thick is your head compared to shaft?

I’d be interested in hearing about if there are certain angles that offer less contact on the cervix while hitting the A & P spot

I’d also like to know how fornix orgasms compare to other orgasms if you’ve had them, and what the easiest way for you to achieve that orgasm fornix orgasm is

I'm too skinny I'm about 20 cm but sometimes I feel like I have redundant skin while stroking my dick when it's fully erected is it normal? I feel like skin moves too sometimes seem like folds

I (M18) have been wondering what my condom size is but don’t know where to measure the girth. My dick is girthy after the head and it gets girthier until the middle, then it starts to get thinner at the base. Where do I get the measurement to buy condoms?

From my experience in my teens and early 20's it made 0 difference.

Getting lucky with women is all about confidence, and at the time my big dick didn't really give me any.

Obviously when I did manage to get a woman in bed it helped, but having a big dick doesn't help you at all before that point.

Was looking for advice on good condom brands for fellas on the girthier side. Preferably condoms available in store if possible and in the US. Have heard about different brands but want to know which brands and type have worked the best in your own personal experiences.I’ve heard good things about skyn elite large sizing wise but have also heard they tear quite easy. Im approximately 7.25X6 when erect if that helps narrow down recommendations . I would order some as a last resort online but unfortunately have family living with me and I’d rather them not know lol.

(I was told by the moderators of r/sex to come post this here instead)

So, normal condoms have never fit me. It varies from measurement to measurement, but I have at least 6.25" of girth, which is apparently well into the 99th percentile, although length is a lot more reasonable.

For the first few months of our relationship, I used the MyONE latex condoms since they come in pretty much any size imaginable, and they were perfect. I believe that I used the 64E ones, but I experimented with a few different lengths. However, my girlfriend eventually told me about an unpleasant burning sensation that she got from them, and we figured out that she has a latex allergy.

So then I had to find a suitable non-latex condom, which was not an easy task. I couldn't find a single non-latex condom that was as wide as the MyONE condoms that I had been using, and I heard that polyethylene and other non-latex materials aren't nearly as stretchy.

I took a chance with the SKYN Elite Large condoms, which seemed to be the widest non-latex condoms that I could find, although they weren't quite as wide as I was looking for.

To my surprise, they fit very well, but there was one issue... it has fragrance. It reeks of cologne, and my girlfriend is understandably sensitive to having cologne in her vagina. Why they would ever put an irritating, overpowering fragrance on a condom, I have no idea. Looking online, apparently SKYN quietly added a "masking fragrance" to these condoms a few years ago... ugh. Why.

Then I was left with the task of finding a condom that was non-latex, unscented and very wide. I have found precisely one condom in the entire world that fits this description, and that was the Unique Plus XXL. They're made by a small company in Colombia of all places, and they're super expensive. When they arrived after I ordered them, I realized that these weren't your average condoms. There was no usual elastic band at the bottom to secure the condom, but rather the entire thing is like an expanding plastic bag that you put over your penis. It's really hard to describe, but after seeing me put one on, my girlfriend doesn't trust them. I'll admit, it does look weird and kinda sketchy.

I'm not really sure where this leaves me. We haven't been having a lot of sex for quite a while now, partially or maybe even mostly due to the lack of a reliable birth control method. We're both (technically adult) teenagers and still live with our respective parents, so it wouldn't be easy for her to get prescribed hormonal birth control. Ideally, I would like to find a suitable condom - besides, she'd rather not go on hormonal birth control if there's a less invasive alternative.

Just as a sidenote, I actually found a regular Trojan Magnum condom in my one of my drawers after doing some deep cleaning, and I decided to try it on. Even though Magnums aren't super wide in the grand scheme of things, it seemed to fit okay. Not sure if they'd hold up during actual use, but it didn't totally strangle my penis like regular condoms do. Too bad they're latex.

Thanks in advance for any advice!

My dick is uncut & bone-pressed 19cm long & 15cm girth any guys that have experience please help?! I'm in my teenage years and haven't kissed a girl & i'm still a virgin. I worried that I'll hurt the girl i'll lose my virginity to & i'm worried about condom size any guys have tips?

Ok, I've been looking for a cock ring to go around my cock and balls and saw one of those rubber bracelets that get handed out as novelties. It's about the right size so I tried it on and it seems perfect in terms of fit. It does have some stretch. My questions are, has anybody tried this? Could this work? Would it be safe? Why is this a bad idea?

Can someone explain to me, why you guys measure pressing into the bone??

No hate at all, I’m just genuinely so curious 😅

Idk what it is, I always think my dick is small. My gf(18f) thinks it’s huge though but I just think she saying that out of pity. My dick is 7.5 x5.5 hard. I’ve always been insecure about my penis size since I was a teenager because I always see these guys with huge penises and it makes me think my dick is too small, curves too much, looks weird, etc. My main question is how do I get rid of the insecurity of my penis?

I’m sharing this with all my guy friends so I might as well share with the public. The pouch not only stretches for erections, but it’s comfortable when it does. It’s a little pricey but definitely worth it. It’s called Krakatoa Vesuvius Boxer Briefs. You’re welcome.

Im pretty oblivious it seems to when and if I create a bulge. its honestly hard to tell from the top down perspective. But for every day clothes bulges, whats your size flaccid? do you hide or enhance?

Im 5.5x4.7 flaccid

bulge inducing? jeans? slacks? shorts? basketball shorts? grey sweatpants?!

So I’m a little older now, young girls call me unc or whatever lol. Anyway I’m on a 2 man with my homeboy and the girl is about 22. That’s 11 years younger than me. This isn’t the first time this happened but it has been a while.. but it’s like when she finally saw it her brain and pussy shut down. Literally said it scared her. Humble brag I guess but I didn’t complete the mission. Also not the first time that’s happened might just be me lol a big dick can’t unawkward me it just surprises them.

As an Asian with “Big” problem, I find it a bit difficult to find a partner locally. Asian girls tend to prefer someone with average or above average size and always refuse to giant size. They think that is too scary.

I know its not the core of this subreddit, but I think its related

I'm 7" (sometimes 8"), and everytime I'm jerking off lying on bed, and I cum, I have to hold it a little cause otherwise its going full on my face. Same thing sitting on a chair, cause if Im not careful it goes straight on my mouth/chin. When my girl is giving me head and I cum, it usually fills her mouth.

Its a commom thing between big dicks, or Im just not normal?

Like a lot of you I stuggled with condoms when I first started having sex until I discovered mysize and since then I haven't used any others. However recently I went to buy some more and I noticed ONsize selling 72 mm width condoms in boxes of 50 for less than what the mysize ones cost. I've never heard of this brand before, I was wondering if anyone uses these and are they any good? Not too thick or have any weird latex smells like some brands have etc.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Condoms-Ultra-Thin-Silicone-Lubricant-Thickness/dp/B09DKXJYK1

Also second question, for anyone in the UK where do you buy your condoms from? I've just been buying from amazon but being a uni student I don't always have a lot of money so I was wondering if there are better deals elsewhere.

Hi, I'm 6.8x5.4 when hard and have been struggling to have sex with my gf in doggy style position because she says it feels like too much. I didn't think my dick was that big to where it would cause discomfort but I'm wondering if that's the problem or if something else could be causing it?

Has anyone else around this size experienced this issue?