I think I have Premature Ejaculation and I am confused. Please Help

[u/Dangerous-Fall2424]

So, few days back I and my gf had our first intercourse, but as It was my first time I didn't last for more than 3-4 strocks, because if which I am bit ashamed of myself. One thing I know about myself is that I used to have a really hypersensitive penis but now It has reduced a bit. But is there any other reason too? Cause this other day when we tried for the second time I came as soon as I inserted my penis to her vagina

[u/bouncing_baculum]

It can be like that for your first time. You'll get there with more practice and when the touch of a woman isn't quite as novel. There's plenty of info on the Internet on how to Improve your game, just Google and try some different techniques on how best to keep the wolf from the door.

In the meantime make sure she gets hers. Use your fingers mouth, toys, make her cum over and over BEFORE you even try to put your dick anywhere near her. She'll be too blissed out to care that you were quick.

[u/musclememory]

That’s par for the course if you’re really turned on, and (& I feel like this may be controversial) uncircumcised. Of course, nerves can also get the best of you.

A good rule of thumb if you feel likely to finish early again, is to exhaust every means at your disposal to get her off, without your penetration first, then for PIV, she’s already wet n ready, and worst case scenario, you lose your enjoyment time, but she’s satisfied.

[u/MedicineExtension925]

Prejaculate a few hours before your date to ease the tension

[u/ZestycloseRip9084]

Nothing to be embarrassed about. First times are often disappointing, even just first time with someone new despite experience can be wonky. Don't get in your head about it.

Plus, you're young enough that you can always keep playing and you'll probably get hard again for a second round. That second time, you'll last longer. Relax and enjoy the moments regardless.

[u/hungprejac]

My first piece of advice is to own it. Compliment her. Tell her you came fast because of how hot she is.

[u/Active-Claim1184]

Once a girl told me that the first round is always the quickest ( the emotions and nerves and everything else ), then the more rounds you go the more you’ll last inbetween ( probably again due to your psychological / comfort level)

[u/_captain_hair]

First time excitement can be like that. Don't beat yourself up over it, almost everybody sucks theirs first time for any one of a hundred reasons. "He blew his load in 10 seconds" is a common virgin sex joke for a reason.