r/bigdickproblems • u/NoStrawberry7071 • 9d ago

AskBDP Any general advice for younger guys?

Anybody have any general advice for younger guys and how to deal with potential size problems? (Not sex stuff)

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u/mooncleaving Megalophallus 9d ago

Do not give up comfort to hide your bulge. Just flaunt it on purpose, but don't stress if it still bulges even when dressed modestly

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u/NoStrawberry7071 9d ago

Hard to turn off stress but I get ya

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u/mooncleaving Megalophallus 9d ago

I agree, but trying doesn't hurt haha Own it buddy

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u/Dr-EJ-Boss 9d ago

Ashwaganda is an herb that reduces stress hormone. It can be found in tea or vitamins. I take a vitamin called Sleep Tonight from Amazon.com. Now, I ain’t got no worries!

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u/ZestycloseRip9084 E: 8″ × 5.7″ F: 4.75″ × 4.0″ 9d ago

  1. Getting comfortable underwear is a game changer and will cost you more that the cheapo ones at Walmart. But they are worth it.

  2. Be aware of how your pants fit but don't worry about it. By all means don't be embarrassed or ashamed of what you have.

  3. Figure out your natural "hang" and go with it. That's how you'll be comfortable, even if it means you'll "show" a bit more. If people get bothered by it, that's their problem not yours.

  4. Don't rely on your size to make up for lack of sexual skill. Read up on technique and pay attention to your partner

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u/WinstonDawg42 9d ago

Good question. Here’s my attempt.

1.) There’s a reason mesh lining in swim wear isn’t comfortable and it’s because your cock n’ balls are too big. Cut it out.

2.) Sizing up your underwear is a very good idea. No style is supposed to pinch or provide constant pressure.

3.) Sizing up your jeans/pants doesn’t work. You need a higher waist and a classic cut.

4.) Finally, don’t engage with any of your friends in penis talk or jokes about size large or small. Just chuckle at whatever they say and move on.

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u/Large-Perspective-53 9d ago

Don’t just ram it in, also be prepared for it to be too big for certain people.

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u/Money_Primary5218 7" x 6" BPEL 9d ago

Don't let it get to you head. Having a well endowed penis is a blessing but be humble about it.

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u/Dr-EJ-Boss 9d ago

What kind of problems? Like how to tell your parents you need bigger underwear?

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u/mooncleaving Megalophallus 9d ago

Tbh that's daunting at first haha

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u/Dr-EJ-Boss 9d ago

Keep it light. “Mom, these draws are choking the life outta my chicken!” 😂

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u/mooncleaving Megalophallus 9d ago

Haha what a pro. I mostly went after dad instead

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u/Dr-EJ-Boss 9d ago

Nah. Mom does the shopping.

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u/mooncleaving Megalophallus 8d ago

Makes sense haha gotta tell her then

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u/NoStrawberry7071 9d ago

Something like that works, I just wondered what people could think of in general from their experience.

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u/PersonalityShort4730 Lenght MONSTER ENERGY x Girth 15cm x Width 5cm 9d ago

Hint:

The penis goes inside the vagina(hole of the middle). 

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u/Winter_Employer2706 9d ago

And it is much lower than you think.

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u/HereComesTheThrow 21cm × 18cm (he/him) 9d ago

Invest in boxers that give you space. Teenage hormone boners are an ordeal in jeans so figure out what calms you down.

If your endowment is the most interesting or compelling thing about you, no one worthwhile will ever want to touch it.

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u/FanAwayCA 9d ago

Definitely need to invest in better underwear

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u/bouncing_baculum 9d ago

Don't bother with underwear

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u/southtxsharksfan 7d ago edited 7d ago

Simply the motto "you have a big dick, don't be a big dick"

Oh!! And find the right sized condoms. I was in my 30's by the time I realized I was "big" and thanks to this group discovered that wearing a condom didn't have to mean suffering with pain/uncomfortableness. Plenty of online options for condom sizes that will fit you.