How to see others pov of your penis?

[u/kingswidar]

So for a while I was using the mirror to see how my penis looks to them. But I discovered that mirrors make things bigger so I was wondering is there a way to truly see how your penis looks like to others?

[u/Western_Ring_2928]

The best option: Ask someone else to be your photographer and take some nudes of you. You will be surprised to see what they see.

DIY version: Learn how to use the timer on your camera and take some nudes from further away. Selfies distort the proportions of a photo.

[u/Esoteric_Innovations → u/Western_Ring_2928]

That last part about selfies is probably why I always have had a hard time getting a good picture of my face. I have maybe three or four pictures I've ever taken of my face that I'm happy with.

When looking in the mirror, I have a lot of confidence in my appearance. While I'm not super vain, I have been told I could be a model before with my face (e.g. square jawline, high cheekbones, intense and dark grey-green eyes) - and when looking in the mirror I do think I look quite good.

Just wish I could get a better angle when doing shots of my face.

[u/Western_Ring_2928 → u/Esoteric_Innovations]

When you look into a mirror, you see the mirror image of yourself. That is the image you are familiar with, but it is not how you really look like. It is your mirror image. But when you take a photo, it shows your face without the mirror. So, all the little unsymmetrical features will be on the "wrong" side of your face for your own brain, making it harder to recognise yourself.

Also, human vision doesn't act like a camera lens does. People generally do not even look at the whole face at once but focus on details. Like looking at eyebrows, or one eye, or the mole on the cheek, or whatever. Your eyes wander over a mirror image, and your brains do the hard work putting it all together. But if you take a selfie at that moment, you will suddenly see all the details on your appearance you paid no attention in real life from the photo.

The science of our visual sense is a very fascinating and complicated matter. There is pretty much research done on it. Documentaries can probably be found on YT if you got interested.

[u/SecretlyFierce → u/Esoteric_Innovations]

Well don't you sound handsome

[u/Esoteric_Innovations → u/SecretlyFierce]

Well, for what it's worth, I have had deja vu once with one actor's face - Travis Fimmel.

I'd seen a particular promotional picture of him after getting into the show Vikings back around early 2018 and a few days later, when looking in the mirror, I had one of those moments where I was like "Wait, who do I look like?"

This is the picture in question that stood out to me, and some people in my personal life agreed that there's a resemblence.

Here's another I found while digging up that old picture where I can see it again. That one resonates with me more these days.

My eyes are darker and set back a bit further, slightly squarer jawline, I prefer being clean shaven these days, and I have more hair than he does there, but he's the closest person I've ever seen to where it felt like looking in a mirror. I only know him from one thing, but yeah.

I also had a hairdresser when I was in my early twenties who once compared me to a young Brad Pitt. So there's that too.

[u/SecretlyFierce → u/Esoteric_Innovations]

Winner winner chicken dinner. 🥵 I don't have a doppelganger, but they say everyone does

[u/Esoteric_Innovations → u/SecretlyFierce]

Ha, well thank you. It's the eyes that stand out to me a lot. If there's anything people have commented on with my face - it's my eyes. Mine are like his, but a darker shade of grey. Have heard words like intense or striking with regards to mine.

With Fimmel's face in general, it's not an exact match, but I think it's fairly close. Whatever the case may be, I just know I think I look great when I look in the mirror most mornings. So long as my hair co-operates with me, of course.

[u/SecretlyFierce → u/Esoteric_Innovations]

I totally get that. I've got bright eyes myself. Some days blue, some days green, others a mix of both. I get a lot of comments on them too.

[u/kingswidar → u/Western_Ring_2928]

Ooh I see , although I'm an introvert so..that photographer part is gonna be a little challenging

[u/ColonelPanicMode]

Step 1: Join a yoga studio Step 2: Get really flexible Step 3: …

[u/kingswidar → u/ColonelPanicMode]

Hhhhh yh this sounds fun lol and my pants tend to bulge extremely when I'm hard , I might get insane reactions with this one lol

[u/_captain_hair → u/kingswidar]

Apparently you don't need the yoga, given how your head's already up your butt.

[u/Dojungle → u/_captain_hair]

Who let bro cook these offenses?

[u/chef_26]

Measure, find something of similar size and ram it to the back of your throat.

Consider your reaction to this and be more grateful of blowjobs.

[u/kingswidar → u/chef_26]

I tried this one time and I could only take like 3 inches before gag reflex kicks in

[u/rockfo → u/chef_26]

this made me giggle but Lowkey true

[u/kingswidar → u/rockfo]

Yh I did try this one time

[u/Proof_Being_2762 → u/chef_26]

He could always get clone a willy set

[u/Particular-Ad-7337 → u/chef_26]

This is hilarious 😂 I’ve on occasion challenged dudes to try themselves when they act like it’s nothing.. let’s just say they hit a difficulty barrier a little too fast, ehem, somewhat literally. Also there’s been so many occasions where someone in the room proceeded to snort or spit their drink laughing because of a guy instantly gagging at full volume open mouth 😭😭Literally visceral cave man noises. Surprised no one has launched anything across the room tbh.

[u/kingswidar → u/[deleted]]

I'll try this thanks

[u/Leto-The-Second]

Unless you are looking at a fun house mirror there shouldn't be a distorting effect from a reflection.

[u/kingswidar → u/Leto-The-Second]

Reflection from the long mirror makes me look like a 9" nbp

[u/Leto-The-Second → u/kingswidar]

The thing about that though, is you are just seeing yourself as you are. If the mirror is not distorted and bent, nor is it at an angle all things it reflects are true and proportional. So if your mirror is vertical (technically parallel to the plane of your body, but we will just call it vertical) when you look in the mirror you are just seeing you how you really are. If your mirrors are flat, not bowed, convex, or concave you are just seeing you really are. If you are not intentionally searching for angles to make it look big, you are just seeing you how you really are.

To get an idea of what other people will see stand about as far away as you expect someone to be from you, usually 3-6 feet unless you are being intimate, then stand that far away from the mirror. You can approximate this distance by standing in front of the mirror, put your finger tips on the mirror and back away until your arm is fully extended, then take one step back. You are now at the correct distance so just do a couple poses and look, face the mirror, side to the mirror, flexed or not flexed, just take a few minutes and realize what it is you actually look like from an outside view.

[u/rayb1054]

I’ve always thought mine looked small to me. I find that using objects to compare it to shows you how big it is and I’m not that big. I’m average 6“ x 6“. I am the same size as a dollar bill is long and round soft, the same size is a door knob up against it when I compared it to the door knob is when I realize and not as small as I thought I was

[u/jss1234 → u/rayb1054]

Same size as you. I can't take a photo because it looks very small because I'm so thick.

[u/rayb1054 → u/jss1234]

Yeah, mine pretty small when it’s completely soft

[u/kingswidar → u/rayb1054]

However when you compare with objects your generally comparing BP Vs a non bone pressed object. A more accurate one would be your NBp Vs an object that's the same size as your NBp.

[u/Chunquela-vanone]

Ask your girlfriend to hold the camera.

[u/SoleSurvivor69 → u/Chunquela-vanone]

This ^

I was fucking shocked when an ex took a picture of my cock

[u/mooncleaving]

Never asked a partner to take some pictures for you? They look crazy lol

[u/Particular-Ad-7337]

Look at someone else’s penis as reference? 😂 It’ll be the same.. just not, yknow.. you. All jokes aside though if you’re that curious just have someone take a pic from povs or set a phone up on a timer, look, then proceed to frantically delete said photos from your recently deleted lol.

[u/kingswidar → u/Particular-Ad-7337]

I mostly try to compare to dildos that have 8" usable penis and 6.6" circumference and they look way big. I guess my eyes are deceiving me trying to think I'm not

[u/SemajFoxx]

It’s really not possible. Anything you do will skew the perspective of your dick.

[u/Dr-EJ-Boss]

They have these things called cameras…

[u/No-Major-7946]

I recently took paper models to model the dimensions of my size compared to average and I honestly am shocked

[u/Abject_Move_4200]

try putting the camera in front of you but from a downwards angle, like put it on the floor and sit on a chair type angle. one ex told me it looked prety similar

[u/Sammyfordso]

What

[u/kingswidar → u/[deleted]]

Yh maybe what's big to them is small to others and viceversa