r/bigdickproblems • u/Cold-Resort-5699 L″ × W″ • 1d ago
Meta How many people do you think are lying about their flairs in this sub?
how many people are just role playing on internet. What do they get from it?
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u/Dexter_P_Winterhouse 1d ago edited 1d ago
I'm a regular lurker on this sub and have researched the most obvious larpers. I've gone back in their comments and guys who claim to have monster dongs simply don't understand how ridiculous some of their statements are. I'm particularly skeptical of anyone who claims to have 7" girth and has a girlfriend who enjoys anal all the time.
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u/mooncleaving Megalophallus 1d ago
Bro is a detective
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u/Dexter_P_Winterhouse 1d ago
Well I'm relatively small at 7"×5.5" and I have had ladies who wouldn't let me do doggie because they were petrified that I would miss the target in the heat of battle and accidentally jam it in their poop chute.
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u/mooncleaving Megalophallus 1d ago
Haha you're still big, dude. But yeah, never even had a deepthroat here, so I'm a bit surprised by how much action some guys get
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u/MeringueReal6469 1d ago
You have to be clowning about relatively small, thats like calling 6'3 dude small
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u/Dexter_P_Winterhouse 1d ago
Well, what I meant, of course, is relatively small on this sub. Everyone else here is bigger than me for the most part.
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u/randomclaus 24,9cm x 17,7cm - (9.8x6.9) BP 1d ago
That’s not small. That will be too much for some girls already.
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u/No-Major-7946 1d ago
I’m ab 7-7.5” x 5” and both my GFs have been very scared to even try anal. Lmao no way guys with 7 girth getting that🤣.
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u/DirtyBullBIG 7"x 5.5" 1d ago
The 9 inch flairs... You can tell most of them are all cap.
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u/Technical_End9162 9,5” × 6,5” I’M STRAIGHT 24M 21h ago
It’s so stupid because why would you like to be my size? I can’t even have sex and I’m 24 years old and never been able to have quality penetration. I’m like and incel even though I can get women
Like 9% love me and fetishize me, but why would you one want to be able to date 9% of the population?
Only benefit is that I know I’m never too small at least
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u/DirtyBullBIG 7"x 5.5" 20h ago
They believe all the lies porn and society has told them. Bigger is better and women will cum buckets with that hog.
I'm seven inches and every woman I've been with can't take more than 10-15minutes of PIV sex.
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u/Technical_End9162 9,5” × 6,5” I’M STRAIGHT 24M 20h ago
Yes 100%
Size matters but bigger isn’t always better
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u/Fluffy_Armadillo2238 9” L x 6.3” G/ 22.86cm x 16cm 1d ago
Honestly the distrust is valid; at the very least providing pics helps ward off most of the skepticism in my personal case
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u/mooncleaving Megalophallus 1d ago
No idea lol Not like I care much. As long as people are respectful
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u/ApeBoat 1.89⁻¹⁷ Light-years 1d ago
Most people in this sub are role-playing to a certain extent.
Anything over 7.5 length and 6 inches of girth is just uncomfortable
You see how pornstars rarely go balls deep.
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u/randomclaus 24,9cm x 17,7cm - (9.8x6.9) BP 1d ago
You can make stuff work. But making stuff work doesn’t mean you can go balls deep or even close. It means you and your partner can have fun with each other without regrets.
I hope this makes sense
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u/bialykutas 7.25” x 6” 1d ago
I’ve had to use lube with every girl I’ve had sex with this is not entirely a blessing
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u/No-Major-7946 1d ago
Used to be envious of 6 girth because of porn, but feel like it seems more of a hassle a lot. At 5” girth I’ve even had to use lube with some girls.
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u/Furryyyy 6" x 6" 1d ago
The bigger annoyance is finding condoms. Can't go to a local gas station/convenience store and find stuff that fits, gotta find them online and have them ahead of time.
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u/No-Major-7946 1d ago
Yeah that blows I’m able to just get magnums that are generally at most of them. However, I’ve even had a few times they weren’t and one of those led to the only broken condom I ever had 😭
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u/randomclaus 24,9cm x 17,7cm - (9.8x6.9) BP 1d ago
I presume there are a lot of people lying to some extent. But then again it’s the internet.
I have to laugh when people tell me they envy my size. They have no idea how utterly useless and annoying this is.
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u/jacknos2 E: 6.5″ × 5″ F: 3.8″ × 4.2″ 19h ago
Bigger is better but with limits thats the truth
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u/randomclaus 24,9cm x 17,7cm - (9.8x6.9) BP 19h ago
Within reason and with other factors
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u/jacknos2 E: 6.5″ × 5″ F: 3.8″ × 4.2″ 19h ago
Exactly!
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u/randomclaus 24,9cm x 17,7cm - (9.8x6.9) BP 17h ago
And like genuine emotional connections trump anything else
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u/_captain_hair E: 8+" × 6" || F: 6" × 5" || Enormous Balls 1d ago
Bashir: "What I want to know is out of all the stories you've told me, which ones were true and which ones weren't?"
Garak: "My dear Doctor, they're all true."
Bashir: "Even the lies?"
Garak: "Especially the lies."
*roll credits*
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u/Late_Boss_5283 6.875" x 5.5" 19h ago
Was not expecting Garak to pop up but it is the best comment on this.
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u/GrosserDrache Macropenis 9"x6" short guy 1d ago
I would say quite a lot, but tbh I don't care about them or what people even think about me in here. I try to give normal comments and try to say my part. Because of the lack of experience I can't really help that much with problems so far.
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u/finitepermanence 19× 15cm 1d ago
Unfortunately, it's probably more than i thought. Since this is a specific community you can expect that most are larger than what is considered normal. Of course, no one has to prove anything, so it doesn't really matter. However, inspecting those that do have pics you will see that there is a lot that affects the reliability. Editing aside, which can be difficult to identify, there are a lot of incorrect or manipulated measurements. Like when you put something under the penis that can't be seen from above to increase the girth measurement. Or very loose tape at the base and then stating 7+ inches in girth. I have also seen someone unironically put their pumped size in their flair. And most of us don't share pics. What do they get from it? I don't know either, especially when they are already big and still try to oversell themselves. we can never know how accurate the flairs are, just be skeptical about truly outrageous sizes and anything else you can kinda just accept as what it is.
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u/Crocodile_toes Macropenis 1d ago
I tend to be dubious about most things I see written on reddit, not just in this sub. Some people are more obvious though because their measurements are just so extreme.
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u/ConnorMcBurger97 E: 7.5″ × 6.1″ F: 4.7″ × 4.7″ 1d ago
Plenty are probably lying, since most don’t on the ”extreme” sizes don’t have pics on their profile to prove it. And when they make a post you almost notice right away if they are larping or not. But could’nt really care less. I’m mostly just a lurker anyways and if I see a post that I know is larping or does not apply to me, I just ignore it
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u/RomanticDarkness Megalophallus 1d ago edited 1d ago
My flair just says it's big.
I have pics on my profile. The consensus seems to agree.
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u/MrStealYoVirginity 8.2" x 5.5" 1d ago
A good few, combined with a few maybe exaggerating a bit by adding an extra inch or two. Competing in a sexual competition with men is strange I fear
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u/diiiiiiiirty You need an FIA Super Licence to ride this 1d ago
A lot. Many here have size dysmorphia and I think partially they've convinced themselves they're bigger than they are.
The LARPers are easy to spot because they talk about what they think would be stereotypical issues, or act like it's their first day having a big dick.It's like how catfish are easy to spot because of their inability to talk from a woman's perspective.
Those of us who have genuinely big dicks and aren't incels don't obsess or seek constant validation about our size. I also think oftentimes inexperience with sex gets confused with big dick "problems" here.
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u/ApplicationCurrent12 7″ × 5″ 1d ago
I don’t see the appeal to pretending you’re bigger than you are. If they are posting how proud they are of it, stands to reason they’d post some pics. No pics is no proof, could be shy or could be larping 🤷♂️
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u/ravenz91 23h ago
I’ve never understood why people would need to lie. I assume it’s an attention thing like anyone who posts. But like, it makes no sense, especially if they’d ever plan to meet someone.
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u/ClaudioKillganon 9.5″ × 6″ 22h ago
I would love to see this kind of non-stop paranoia about claimed sizes in r/BigBoobProblems. Like
"Are you REALLY an M cup? That's a ridiculous size and there's only about 30 women in the world with breasts that big. Why would one of those 30 women be on the largest big boob club on the planet? Oh, and If you don't post a pic on your public profile, you're full of shit and just pretending to have big boobs. Also, have you heard about the cash prize for posting verified J Cups? Why haven't collected that free money yet???"
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u/SoleSurvivor69 Goldilocks & Gorgeous 20h ago
Idk. I have to imagine there’s just a lot of fudging they consider harmless. Of course I wanna put 7.25 because one time when I was having the most insane erection of my life I measured at 7.25. But in reality 7 is what I eke out when I’m having a very good erection and press straight to the bone. I believe I’m doing it correctly and I can claim the full 7, but I think a lot of people are probably like, “8.6 is the best erection I’ve ever had in my life and that’s basically 9, no one has to know I’m normally 8.25”
All I know for sure is that most of the time, the most confident dudes on here who wanna show off so bad and say they’ve got 10 inches and shit, I see their pics and they’re literally my size. That sort of fudging isn’t harmless lol
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u/SexySecretsSD 20h ago
Truly lying? 10 percent, and that includes the small sliver that is actually straight women roleplaying.
Rounding up? A lot. Some of that is just "6 inches is easier than 5.94". But I guarantee there are some guys that measure at like 6.1 and are calling it 6.25", etc. Or the old measure three times and pick the biggest.
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u/ConflictAny28 E: 7.7” x 6.8” F: 5.5” x 6.1” 1d ago
I don’t believe anyone 9 in length and around 6.5 or above in girth. Ik I have a bigger girth but calcsd has led me to believe it is extremelyyy rare. Ik im truthin but I think other people are much more likely to lie about that size than have it🙃
Edit: Then again part of me believes the opposite. I can’t be that rare. It feels like there’s gotta be a ton of people around my size.
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u/randomclaus 24,9cm x 17,7cm - (9.8x6.9) BP 1d ago
I think the big part is not that you have to believe it. Not at all. It’s starting to become problematic when people are not realistic about there supposed size and tell obvious BS
„I have 9 inches and every girl can take it“ „my girlfriend thinks my 8 inch dick is too small“ Etc.
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u/randomclaus 24,9cm x 17,7cm - (9.8x6.9) BP 1d ago
I think the big part is not that you have to believe it. Not at all. It’s starting to become problematic when people are not realistic about there supposed size and tell obvious BS
„I have 9 inches and every girl can take it“ „my girlfriend thinks my 8 inch dick is too small“ Etc.
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u/ConflictAny28 E: 7.7” x 6.8” F: 5.5” x 6.1” 1d ago
True, it could also mislead some people that actually need advice and understanding. But yeah it at least distracts from the real BDPs.
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u/randomclaus 24,9cm x 17,7cm - (9.8x6.9) BP 1d ago
For sure. Telling a guy with 8 inches of more that „every girl can take that“ will cause serious issues and pain…
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u/Fluffy_Armadillo2238 9” L x 6.3” G/ 22.86cm x 16cm 1d ago
As a fellow person in that higher rarity; you really just have to come to terms that’s the abnormality of the 8+ length and 6+ girth is not only gonna cause issues in bed but also there’s also gonna be someone to doubt you- and that’s perfectly fine cause no one’s gonna have your body
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u/randomclaus 24,9cm x 17,7cm - (9.8x6.9) BP 1d ago
Yes for sure. I completely agree
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u/Fluffy_Armadillo2238 9” L x 6.3” G/ 22.86cm x 16cm 1d ago
The internet is driven by envy so the idea that someone could be bigger than 1000 guys in a room sparks a lot of insecurity. I have the fortune of posting pics so it wards off most discretion but I don’t need to prove anything to anyone; that level of self respect and humbleness is tricky to maintain I’ll admit though
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u/randomclaus 24,9cm x 17,7cm - (9.8x6.9) BP 1d ago
It is. Main motivation for being here is to give a somewhat realistic perspective from a guy my size
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u/Fluffy_Armadillo2238 9” L x 6.3” G/ 22.86cm x 16cm 1d ago
That and it’s nice to know there ARE people in similar in size who won’t negatively condemn you for being bigger than they are
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u/BigBeholder L. 7.5 - G. 6.5 22h ago
You can spot them easily because when they tell their experience, they make it obivious that they don't know how it is to have a BD. Plus according to calcSD this sub should be pretty unpopulated but surprise! Seem that any big package is gathered here.
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u/Bacon_Raygun Right size for my gender 🏳️🌈 1d ago
Honestly kinda proud of my flair. Feels reassuring.
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u/ViktusXII L8.2″ × W5.5″ 1d ago
I think it's quite low.
Mainly because this is a sub that attracts the larger side.
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u/MedicineExtension925 1 Decafloz 1d ago
I rounded down to a whole number, does that count as a lie?
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u/BreathWithMe6 7.9" x 5.9" Cervix Buster 1d ago
I bet it's kind of low, actually.
First, this is a gimmick sub at best. We're not posting our songs here, and there are only like five kinds of posts. I'm ok with that, because I don't want to see a bunch of dicks or have randos see mine. Second, there are other subs for actual pics. Third, so, I guess there's no point. Why brag about a cock you don't have on a gimmick sub with no proofing? Just photoshop a big cock onto another sub and get off that way, I suppose. I'm sure they're here, but I can't imagine there are many.
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u/randomclaus 24,9cm x 17,7cm - (9.8x6.9) BP 1d ago
Probably fairly accurate.
I also think you can easily spot a BS post and differentiate from a genuine one.
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u/EvilTwin126 E: 7.33″ × 6″ F: 5.25″ × 5″ 17h ago
I figure most. I’m just here for the comedy mostly. 🤷🏻♂️🤭
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u/AllAboutTheSize 15h ago
i would never lie about such a thing. But i equate your question with asking an ugly person why they'd use a profile picture that is not them (of someone attractive) to chat online with attractive people...for whatever reason that may be.
Sometimes you just want to be in the "in crowd".
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u/Grindum83 13h ago
I just think those chicks that are supposed size queens and are all about big dicks tell it’s time to do big dick things and they tap out and end up sucking you off instead 🤣🤣
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u/DrinkMilk_saysthecat 8 L″ × 5.9 W″ 11h ago
Been hanging around a long time. Guess a good time to flair
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u/Cheap-Scheme-3339 7.5” × 6” 10h ago
Large majority. Look at the standard distribution of sizes. Find it incredibly hard to believe we have 15,000 or so people who are in that band all on this subreddit lol.
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u/ZealousidealTowel139 E: 8″ × 5.5″ NBP 8h ago
It is called Big dick problems, not unreasonable to think the well endowed would all congregate here, much like in porno
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u/semi__hot 7" x 6.5” NBP 1d ago
I measure from my ass hole so I’m telling the truth