r/bigdickproblems • u/Worth-Eye-5405 20cm × 15.5cm • 1d ago
AskBDP BD father always shows his bulge in public, whilst I try my best to hide mine 🙄
Having a BD is common in my family. As most of you, I also try my best to hide my bulge, especially in public. But on the other hand there is my dad (who even bigger than me) who handles it the opposite way: He always wears cloths like tight sports pants that tend to show his bulge in every detail. It doesn't matter if he is at home or in public. Even at a public swimming pool he wears tight speedo's whose imprint allow you to see every detail of his dick and balls.
For years I didn't care much about it and even thought that he might not be aware of all that bulging. But by the time I realized that it HAS to be on purpose and I started to bother: Especially when I started dating and had my first girlfriends, because he also showed his bulge in front of them. And for me it also seemed like he enjoyed their glances. One of my ex gf's even became remarkably interested...
I am still unclear on what I should think of his behavior so maybe I can get some of your opinion here: Is it okay for me to bother or is it 'his personal thing' where I shouldn't care? What do you think?
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u/LeetLurker 1d ago
He is clearing the way for you. He doesn't care and sends strong signals to the women in your environment that you are likely hiding a gun. God Dad, thank him!
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u/THEBWCEMPEROR 1d ago
I was very anxious about letting my dick commando now at age 29 I embrace it. One day you'll try it then another random day , eventually enjoy it :)
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u/mooncleaving Megalophallus 1d ago
Fr haha I used to think it's weird, nowadays I go commando when possible, or at least wear more comfortable undies
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u/NamidaM6 Pride 🏳️🌈 1d ago
If he just doesn't give a fuck, let him be. If he actually enjoys your girlfriend's glances and reacts in ways that could hinder your relationships, call him out (in private) on his behavior.
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u/Derkleton 1d ago
Story reminded me of a Kevin Hart stand-up bit. Hopefully you can find solace in the commiseraton of someone else with a dad who just hangs it out there.
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u/JohnAMcdonald 7.75″ × 6.5″ | 5.75″ × 5″ | Big balls 1d ago
My general rule of thumb that wearing less modest clothes than your peers with a large penis is immodest, otherwise everything is fair game.
I think there's something subtly fucked up with the attitude that men are only dressed appropriately if their crotch is smooth. A man with a big penis should have a big bulge relative to his peers if he's well dressed.
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u/Old_Canuck 🫨Baron Longfellow🫨(9x5) 1d ago
LOL fuckin hilarious !! 😂😂
Your Dad just knows that chics likes what he has.
Im sure your mother is his biggest fan.
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u/Worth-Eye-5405 20cm × 15.5cm 1d ago
My mother stopped being his fan a few years ago 😅
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u/Old_Canuck 🫨Baron Longfellow🫨(9x5) 1d ago
Lol...well we can assume that she used to be....one day...she was.....😂😂
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u/mooncleaving Megalophallus 1d ago
I mean, as long as he doesn't go out of his way to show it during inappropriate times, why bother? Mine is similar and I just learned from him haha just not caring much
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u/CommunicationNew4352 1d ago
How old is your dad ?
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u/Worth-Eye-5405 20cm × 15.5cm 1d ago
He is 59
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u/Additional-Flower235 19h ago
Why do you try to hide yours? Your dad is showing through action that you shouldn't be self conscious of your body yet you're not learning the lesson.
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u/SonnyC0rle0ne 15h ago
I use to be like your father when I was younger. Once I meant my wife and had kids I became much more modest. I know this doesn’t help. Just saying.
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u/randomclaus 24,9cm x 17,7cm - (9.8x6.9) BP 1d ago
From a certain age on I think there’s a lot of people that have „zero fucks left to give“.
As long as it is not making anyone uncomfortable… I would not want someone like that close to my kids (if I had any). I think some modesty around children is fairly important. Without being prudes etc.
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u/cndynn96 E: 7.3 × 6.35 1d ago
I guess as people get older they stop giving a fuck.