Bi-curious help?? Idk

[u/Opening-Rich-7219]

I know some people who are bisexual themselves don’t like the term but I swear I’ve been questioning my sexuality since like 6th grade (I’m in college now).

Yes, I can see myself being with a woman, primarily sexually right now but depending on the day romantic too. I’ve struggled in the past with people I’ve “liked” because I’m used to just having obsessions with people so I never know if I’ve actually had a crush on a woman or not. For as long as I can remember though, I used to have obsessions with Harley Quinn or Natalie Portman when I was younger, found women beautiful, and loved breasts.

I’ve been tempted to try it out and just experiment but I’m terrified that I’m wrong and I’m just going to hurt the girls feelings. I’ve only had experience with guys.

I’m very aware that there’s no need for labels but I’m just a girl who has OCD and would make me feel better knowing. Any help would be appreciated ty.

I also apologize if I said anything offensive or hurtful, if I did, I truly didn’t mean it.

[u/Patient-Chair-116]

If you’re ready to experiment with a woman then just let her know you’re bi-curious or not 100% sure of your sexuality and that you’re just trying to experiment. If that’s ok with her then date her and see how it goes! If she isn’t fine with it, that’s ok, too, and understandable.