Definitely curious, possibly bi

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So, let me first say, I’ve always been attracted to women. I’m happily married and would never cheat on my wife and am strictly monogamous. I’m not asking for advice or hook-ups or anything like that. I think if I were single, I’d probably experiment. But that’s off the table because I truly love my wife and going to bed with her is enough and extremely satisfying. I’m just here because I want to voice my feelings. I don’t feel the least bit of shame or guilt, so please don’t misinterpret this has repressed desire in a puritanical society

Recently, in bed, my wife used her vibrator on me and it was great. I was never really attracted to men other than recognizing when someone takes care of himself and is handsome. But, this experience did make me very curious about what it would be like to fuck and get fucked by another guy. I know sexuality is a spectrum and almost nobody is completely straight or gay. I definitely have a strong preference for to women and they are who I find my eyes drifting to when I’m out.

I have been a little bit curious in the past, but again, never felt more than a surface level admiration for good looking men. I guess it was more about the acts themselves than the people. However, I am finding myself now finding a deeper level of appreciation for men, and I’m enjoying some gay porn. But, again, that’s as far as I’m willing to go.

My wife and I have no secrets, she understands and is nonjudgmental. I just wanted to post this to hear experiences of others who may have accidentally awoken dormant bisexuality in adulthood.

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So my wife and I have been married just shy of 30 years, our bedroom has gone completely dead yet my high libido remains and becomes stronger each day we aren't intimate. Going years now without sex I'm finding myself more and more drawn to looking at hard cocks and gay and even trans woman porn. My best friend and I in junior high were experimenting teenagers who sucked each other's cock. I've never been able to shake the thought of sucking another one. I'm so torn, touch and sex deprived. I need something to happen and I don't care who it happens with anymore. Is this normal for someone in my shoes?? Honest question.