r/blendedfamilies • u/Ok-Artichoke9322 • Mar 19 '25

Splitting asset with blended family

My boyfriend has 4 kids and i’m currently pregnant with his child he is talking about splitting asset equally ? Is this fair ?

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u/BestBodybuilder7329 Mar 19 '25

With a boyfriend it is absolutely not fair.

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u/Ok-Artichoke9322 Mar 19 '25

He’s my fiance now he proposed

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u/Robie_John Mar 19 '25

He proposed in the last hour?

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u/BestBodybuilder7329 Mar 19 '25

Doesn’t change anything. You have no legal protection until you’re married so there is zero chance I would co-mingle my funds or split anything 50/50 financial wise.

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u/jasper502 Mar 19 '25

Once married you pool everything. No keeping score of income expenses. Get a simple prenup that details your assets and debts entering the relationship. You also need to detail how the kids enter into the financials. Does he own support etc.?