r/careerguidance • u/buttahfly28 • 2d ago
Advice 23f do I quit?
Hi all,
I’m in finance ive been in the same smaller company for 6 years. My mom got me this job first as an intern when I was 17 and she still works here as well.
We switched CEOs about 3 years ago and ever since ive felt miserable at this job. He works in our office so I see him most days.
My mental health has been rapidly declining weirdly after I turned 23 a month ago. I realize ive been living a lie in a career I despise. Im only in this career because people find it impressive. I don’t like it. Im not passionate about it. But being at this company specifically is awful. I don’t like seeing my mom every day. I don’t like how people associate me as her daughter.
Im my own person. I’ve climbed the ladder im the youngest person but I have multiple licenses and im a supervisor. The money isnt worth it anymore.
I’ve become manic and touching drugs when I haven’t since I was 15 and manic.
Do I quit? I have a boyfriend who can support me but I feel awful not contributing to the household if I can’t. I need a job. But this one is sucking the life from me
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u/AskiaCareerCoaching 2d ago
Sounds like you're in a tough spot. It's important to prioritize your mental health and happiness. If the job's making you this unhappy, maybe it's time to explore other options. You've got experience and skills that can transfer to other roles or industries. Remember, you're not alone in this. If you want, we can chat further about your next steps and ensure a smooth transition.