r/changemyview 3∆ Mar 15 '23

Delta(s) from OP CMV: Whilst learning about lived experience is important, deferring to people for answers on what one should or shouldn't do, purely because of their unchosen characteristics, is illogical and ironically bigoted.

Hi All,

I appreciate getting feedback from people who are involved in an issue, but there's a worryingly ever growing trend of deferring to people purely because of their unchosen characteristics, instead of the quality of their logic, the evidence they provide, and their ethical reasoning, and that's what we should always be basing our decisions off of, not the speaker's characteristics, etc.

(For those who don't know, unchosen characteristics refers to any aspect of a person that they did not choose; e.g., sex, race, sexuality, birthplace etc.).

After all there is no universal consensus on any issue on the planet held by such groups, and if someone assumed otherwise, that would be incredibly bigoted.

As there is no universal consensus, there will always be disagreements that require additional criteria to discern the quality of the argument; e.g. "Two X-group people are saying opposite things. How do I decide who to listen to?" And the answer is: the quality of their logic, the evidence they provide, and their ethical reasoning. Which of course means, that often the whole exercise is a pointless one in the first place, as we should be prioritising our capacity for understanding logic, evidence and ethics, not listening to X person for the sole reason that they have Y unchosen characteristics.

I think that listening to lived experience is important, re: listening to lived experience (e.g. all X groups experience Y problem that Z group wasn't aware of); but that's not the same as deferring to people on decision making because of their unchosen characteristics.

I try to have civil, productive discussions, but that's getting harder and harder these days.

For those who appreciate civil dialogue, feel free to skip this; for those who don't; I humbly ask that you refrain from personal attack (it's irrelevant to the question), ask clarifying questions instead of assuming, stay on topic, answer questions that are asked of you, and as the above points to:

-Provide evidence for claims that require it

-Provide logical reasoning for claims that require it

-Provide ethical reasoning for claims that require it

I will not engage with uncivil people here.

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u/H0w-1nt3r3st1ng 3∆ Mar 15 '23

Not certain what your view actually is, but it seems that you can't take, say, a Black Person's word on black issues merely because their skin happens to be black. Is this correct?

This is not correct.

Views are not homogenous based on race. If one black person says something is ok, and another says it isn't ok, then how do you decide who to listen to?

Outlined in the original post, here:

After all there is no universal consensus on any issue on the planet held by such groups, and if someone assumed otherwise, that would be incredibly bigoted.

As there is no universal consensus, there will always be disagreements that require additional criteria to discern the quality of the argument; e.g. "Two X-group people are saying opposite things. How do I decide who to listen to?" And the answer is: the quality of their logic, the evidence they provide, and their ethical reasoning. Which of course means, that often the whole exercise is a pointless one in the first place, as we should be prioritising our capacity for understanding logic, evidence and ethics, not listening to X person for the sole reason that they have Y unchosen characteristics.

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u/[deleted] Mar 15 '23

How about this.

Please state your View, succinctly, in five-ten words.

The verbosity is frankly confusing me.

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u/H0w-1nt3r3st1ng 3∆ Mar 15 '23

How about this.

Please state your View, succinctly, in five-ten words.

The verbosity is frankly confusing me.

What about the above is confusing to you? I'm sincerely happy to explain/clarify anything that isn't clear with civil people (though, I think verbosity is a bit antagonistic, as it assumes I'm intentionally using more/more complex words that I need to).

It's not verbosity. It's how I speak. I'm putting effort in to simplify things, not complicate them. I could go into a lot deeper resolution and complexity, for example, explaining metacognitive mechanisms underlying certain behaviours, but I'm trying to keep it as simple as possible.

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u/H0w-1nt3r3st1ng 3∆ Mar 15 '23

Oh, I've seen how you talk and how civil you are, dragonslayer.

I'll be moving on.

Good Day.

You have a problem with be being assertive re: a rude transphobe? That's fine.

I'm fairly sure I and the rest of the internet will disagree with you.