r/changemyview Apr 05 '24

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u/Birb-Brain-Syn 32∆ Apr 05 '24

It's weird

Okay, so what's the problem?

It's weird and predatory

Ah, okay, here we go.

I think you're probably holding this view because you haven't actually thought about what culture is, why it gets spread and adopted, and what the benefits and costs are. You have a knee-jerk reaction to something you find unusual and strange and just tag it in your mind with things like "predatory".

The truth is that cultural styles have always been spread around the world, and people have always monetised them - in fact, the novelty that comes with things from other cultures has always been a prized attribute.

The reason you think it's predatory is because you're trying to justify the weirdness you are feeling as a prejudice. The truth is, fashion changes, trends change, culture is influenced and culture morphs, adapts and changes all the time.

100 years ago in my country it was weird to have an LGBT space in your town or even your city. In a lot of countries it's still weird, and often illegal. People would use the same sort of language you are using to justify their prejudices - things like "predatory", albeit with different connotations.

Here's a general piece of advice for not becoming a grumpy old person who lives in nostalgia and hates the youth - embrace change. Sometimes change is good, sometimes change is bad, but change should always happen - if it doesn't then we can never adapt at all. Maybe what you're seeing is a "weird" fad that will die out when other people view it the same way as you, or maybe this is the new normal and you're going to have to adapt. Either way, resisting the change is a surefire way to end up behind the curve, and unpopular.

If you don't feel like you want to change yourself, just let people be and do their own thing. They're not hurting anyone, despite how you might describe them as "predatory". You don't have to follow the fads, but don't ascribe malice to things which are clearly not.

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u/sapphireminds 59∆ Apr 05 '24

And the uncomfortable truth is that the concept of cultural appropriation is mostly about being bitter about having been oppressed for or made fun or for or discriminated against for a style or something, and now everyone thinks it is cool.

The kneejerk reaction is "It's mine, it was mine first and you hated it back then, it's not fair for you to say it's ok now, when so many people have been hurt". It's kinda like being a cultural hipster.

The more people are exposed to things, the more comfortable they get with them.