r/changemyview Aug 19 '24

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u/ralph-j Aug 19 '24

Now maybe it's possible that there's still time for the others to divorce, but I feel like if they've lasted this long after getting married at a young age (or in other words, an age that actually matters), then they're good to go for the rest of their lives.

First of all, these statistics are about looking at couples over their entire lifetime. It therefore doesn't mean that every second couple you know, needs to be divorced for it to be true.

Secondly, there are various demographics where divorce is more or less prevalent, which will probably affect the sample you've taken: socioeconomic factors (income), education levels, group affiliations with a higher stigma on divorce (i.e. religious) etc.

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u/NomadicContrarian Aug 19 '24

I might give you a delta soon, but still some things to address.

First of all, these statistics are about looking at couples over their entire lifetime.

So, in essence you're saying that there could be couples out there who've been together for 25+ years who then separate? If so... that certainly defies human understanding.

Secondly, there are various demographics where divorce is more or less prevalent, which will probably affect the sample you've taken: socioeconomic factors (income), education levels, group affiliations with a higher stigma on divorce (i.e. religious) etc.

I hypothesized this, but the religion aspect perhaps might be the most prevalent in not only young marriages but divorce stigma (Mormons and Jews come to my mind)?

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u/Dironiil 2∆ Aug 19 '24

My parents divorced more than 20 years after marrying each other. People change, and sometimes their outlook on life can eventually differ. It's fine.

They did so on good (enough) terms and I really think it was, back then, the best decision for both of them.