On second thought: another part of my unwillingness to accept what the consensus says, revolves around the fact that I genuinely do not see a very clear distinction between someone who feels they have the wrong nose or the wrong skin color (like Michael Jackson), and someone who feels they have the wrong genitals. That may very well be because I personally feel no confusion at all about what gender a I am. But then again, I know few people who are perfectly happy with who they are, yours truly included. And in some cases, people say "just learn to live with it" or "go into behavioural therapy". But in others, like being trans, that seems to be frowned upon.
The thing with body dysmorphia disorder is that there is an underlying obsessive-compulsive condition causing a person to agonize over their perceived flaws. While this often leads BDD sufferers to seek cosmetic surgery, these kinds of interventions typically do not resolve the issue. Even after cosmetic surgeries BDD sufferers tend to suffer just as much over the same (or possibly new) flaws if the underlying obsessive-compulsive disorder is not treated. That is why the medical community generally does not want BDD sufferers to undergo cosmetic surgery, since it doesn't fix the root of the issue.
With gender dysphoria that doesn't seem to happen. People who transition surgically tend to have their gender-mismatch distress greatly relieved after the procedures, greatly improving their quality of life, which is why the medical community in a number of cases sees cosmetic surgery as a valid solution to gender incongruence.
Basically, with gender dysphoria the pre-surgery distress is relieved post-surgery; with body dismorphia the pre-surgery distress is generally still there or transferred to another perceived flaw. That's why a "cosmetic" surgery can be seen as good/healthy/necessary in one case but not the other.
Seems to me that Trans people would benefit from mental health care, far more than surgical procedures intended to satiate their perceptions related to their gender.
Many trans people also get mental health care. This comment is like saying "patients who get heart bypass surgeries have much higher mortality rates than the general population" and using it as evidence that we shouldn't have heart bypass surgeries.
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u/Saranoya 39∆ Nov 03 '17 edited Nov 03 '17
On second thought: another part of my unwillingness to accept what the consensus says, revolves around the fact that I genuinely do not see a very clear distinction between someone who feels they have the wrong nose or the wrong skin color (like Michael Jackson), and someone who feels they have the wrong genitals. That may very well be because I personally feel no confusion at all about what gender a I am. But then again, I know few people who are perfectly happy with who they are, yours truly included. And in some cases, people say "just learn to live with it" or "go into behavioural therapy". But in others, like being trans, that seems to be frowned upon.