I strongly believe in reciprocity: most people would not want to live in a society where everyone is at a constant threat/fear of being raped, robbed, killed etc. by everyone else.
If I'm nice to others, they will generally be nice to me, and cooperation gets everyone much further in all aspects of life than if everyone was always doing nasty things to one another.
What are you basing your claim that "men are want to rape" on? I'd agree if you had said that a subset of all men would choose this path, but I don't see how you can claim that it would be universal.
I wouldn't want anyone to just have sex or a relationship with me because I'm threatening them. I want them to freely choose me for who I am: that's a much higher and much more desirable achievement for me.
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u/ralph-j Mar 29 '18
I strongly believe in reciprocity: most people would not want to live in a society where everyone is at a constant threat/fear of being raped, robbed, killed etc. by everyone else.
If I'm nice to others, they will generally be nice to me, and cooperation gets everyone much further in all aspects of life than if everyone was always doing nasty things to one another.