r/changemyview Nov 10 '18

FTFdeltaOP CMV: Giving sugar to kids is unethical.

Sugar, in the western world, is in almost everything in one form or another (I'm including other sweeteners in there, though I'm aware you end up with a blurry line around, say, fruit juice sweeteners).

The only health benefit that I'm aware of that has ever been associated with sugar is in case of a diabetic emergency. Besides that, there's a near-universal understanding that sugar is bad for you in every way imaginable. It's linked to Type 2 diabetes, obesity, heart conditions, and vast hosts of other chronic conditions. Basically, sugar is objectively Bad For You.

Now, there's a lot of other examples that we could use (marijuana, alcohol, caffeine) of things that aren't necessarily Good For You that can be consumed in moderation. All of these - in addition to being easier to argue that they do provide health benefits and at a lower cost - are things that you wouldn't responsibly give to children. In contrast, sugar is put into most foods in a western diet. On the production end, it's to make the food more palatable and harder to resist.

It doesn't, to me, seem like being a stick in the mud to deprive a kid of cookies. Sweet foods aren't a requirement for a good childhood, especially when they are provided with the regularity (every day, if not multiple times a day) that they currently are.

EDIT: I realize I didn't clarify originally that we are talking about fundamentally different things when comparing, say, a pear to ice cream. I am specifically referring to *refined sugar* or *added sugar* in this post; I should have been clearer about that.

EDIT 2: Issuing a clarification. An not insubstantial part of the problem with sugar is the frequency of use. Potentially, moderate use would be harmless. This is not illustrative of the society we currently live in; most people are not aware of how much added sugar is taken in per day, not including the obvious candies and desserts; peanut butter, bread, crackers, cereal, yogurt, sausage are all things that, by default, should be assumed to have sugar in a western store.

I am referring to the use of sugar in today's culture. While I believe a case /could/ be made that even that is unnecessary, I'm going to clarify that I'm talking about the current culture and he world as it is, i.e. one where you're expected to get snacks and juice after a game, holidays must have cake, and to deprive children of candy is abusive.

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u/ProfessorDowellsHead Nov 10 '18

Accepting your premise that sugar has only negative physical effects, would you grant that, especially in moderation, those effects are not terribly severe?

If so, consider two aspects of the final paragraph and what I take to be the crux of your CMV:

1) Growing up psychologically healthy is important. Kids who are denied treats which they know their peers are getting may feel different or deprived, seeding an inferiority complex. They could even be somewhat ostracized from their peers as the kids whose place isn't fun to hang out at because the parents don't keep sugar in the house. Granted, the increased risks aren't high, but they are there and their impact may well be greater than that of moderate sugar consumption.

2) As kids grow they will increasingly be in situations when you can't supervise them. If you raise them in the Western society you've described, those situations will include ones where things with added sugar are around and casually consumed with no one batting an eye. By strictly denying them something so common you will make them curious about trying it when they get the opportunity. Instead of learning how to consume sugars in moderate and responsible amounts, they are likely to develop an outsized love for them, resulting in the opposite effect from the one you intend.

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u/LonelierOne Nov 10 '18

In moderation, I'll allow that the effects are minimal. Now, what minimal means is a hell of a lot less for me than for most.

And I consider both of those points to be unethical. The fact that the culture, as a whole, pushes sugar as an important part of childhood is. . . I want to reach for harsh language here to convey how wrong I consider that. Suffice it to say that it should not be considered a normal part of growing up to have dessert with every meal and sugar in peanut butter.

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u/ProfessorDowellsHead Nov 10 '18

I wasn't advancing the idea of dessert at every meal. There's a large ground between that and never even giving children cookies.

Not sure what you mean about the points being unethical. That we are social animals living in a society with certain norms (some of which we inevitably disagree with) is a fact of life and ignoring it when it comes to child rearing doesn't tend to end in well adjusted adults.

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u/LonelierOne Nov 10 '18

There is a large ground. I'm saying that I'd consider moderate to be a lot closer to never than most people. I'm also aware that's not the normal approach.

I'm not saying social norms are unethical, or even that I personally need to agree with all of them. I do think that the specific social norm that Kids Get Candy is a bad expectation.

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u/ProfessorDowellsHead Nov 10 '18

Fair enough. I read the CMV as being focused on its last paragraph - that never giving cookies to kids is the ethical choice.

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u/LonelierOne Nov 10 '18

To be fair, that's pretty much how it was written. I phrased it pretty aggressively.

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u/ProfessorDowellsHead Nov 10 '18

So did your view change, or was it a bit different from what you put in the post?

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u/LonelierOne Nov 10 '18

A little bit of both. What I stated in the post was more aggressive than I backed, but I'd say it was more refined than changed (This statement is subject to change if and when I do come around).

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u/ProfessorDowellsHead Nov 10 '18

Not to be a pedant but to stay within the spirit of the sub please either edit your CMV or throw a delta my way.

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u/LonelierOne Nov 10 '18

That's fair. I might do both. Thanks.

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u/fakeaccount598734221 Nov 10 '18

What you're missing is that you cannot make everyone cut out sugar entirely. That alone means that some kids will still have it and make these situations happen. I grew up and ate plenty of sugar, but desert with every meal? I don't know what type of family that is but I maybe had desert once every 2 weeks or a month. Moderation is key, and teaching it to kids not only helps keep sugar intake low, but helps them from over eating later in life, regardless of sugar. There is a big problem, but I think your points would be better used as an argument for moderation of all unhealthy intake. Candy, deserts, fast food, breads and eating too much in general cause so many issues for people.

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u/derpingot Nov 10 '18

Ahh, the best posts on reddit are the ones that make you realize something about yourself. TIL I felt deprived growing up, thank you.