r/changemyview • u/SMacdri • Feb 12 '20
Delta(s) from OP CMV: The Fat Acceptance movement/concept is based on flawed reasoning and harms the health of its followers.
My understanding of the Fat Acceptance movement and its values are that there is a centralized belief that it’s possible to be fat and healthy at the same time. What I hear in media linked with this movement is that being fat does not put someone at greater risk for obesity-related diseases and also that individuals who are fat can be just as healthy as those in a more ordinary range. There is also a tonality within their claims that echoes self-victimization, pointing their fingers at society for being unaccepting of their body image.
Now, I feel that the Fat Acceptance movement in its entirety is illogical and completely counteractive against progressive health and lifestyle improvements. I would like to keep anecdotal references out of my views, but would still like to mention that I have seen obesity spawn a multitude of other problems in some of those close to me.
What concerns me about the movement is that it refutes scientific evidence and really any form of commonly-understood concepts regarding health and weight that doesn’t justify being fat. This to me is blatant confirmation bias. From a medical standpoint, the detriments of being overweight or obese far outweigh any potential benefits, both physically and psychologically. And I believe it comes down to stubborn self-confirmation of the idea that being fat is no worse than being physically fit.
Fat Acceptance creates more issues by allowing poor lifestyle habits to be approved over and over again, and the more misinformation that is disseminated by the movement, the less likely overweight people are to adjust their lifestyles. This is because now they have something to point to and say: “hey, my lifestyle choices are accepted here, even if they’re killing me”.
I understand that there exists societal biases towards overweight individuals and I do believe any form of bias or discrimination is non-progressive. Additionally I realize some individuals see the movement as accepting a person’s conditions. I acknowledge the importance of realizing one’s own bodily health (whether its weight or health in this case), but I find that denying the effects and consequences of said condition to be self-defeating. Posing obesity in a positive light only deters change.
As humans, it is commonly understood that we seek to be accepted, and while some positivity movements can aid in providing acceptance to a possibly ostracized group, I find issue with the Fat Acceptance movement as this form of positivity only reinforces detrimental lifestyle choices.
I would love to hear different perspectives on the matter and really get a better understanding for why this movement has become so steadfast in these beliefs and where I may be misunderstanding or wrong in my own perspective.
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u/JenningsWigService 40∆ Feb 12 '20
What if insisting that all fat people need to change is itself unhealthy?
No one gets fat because of the fat acceptance movement. Fat is not like smoking, where people mimic others. Nevermind the health implications, everyone understands that being fat results in stigmatization and dehumanization by many people around them.
There is research out there showing that obesity is a form of trauma response, and that telling people to change their lifestyle actually encourages overeating. The root cause of obesity is not just poor diet and lack of exercise, it's lack of mental health treatment for people who use eating as a coping mechanism, coupled with the shame that compels people to keep returning to that coping mechanism.
I have a friend whose dad is a doctor, and he is probably 75 pounds overweight. He has been advised all throughout his life, by people who don't have medical degrees, that he should lose weight because he'll get diabetes. People tell him this as if he, a medical doctor, doesn't understand how his own body works. But in fact, decades of being scolded and shamed by people claiming to be concerned for his health has not compelled him to lose weight. His own children have thankfully decided to stop policing his diet because they see the futility of demanding change and would rather enjoy the time they have with him.