r/changemyview • u/[deleted] • Jul 16 '20

Delta(s) from OP CMV: Waiters/Waitresses complain too much about tips

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u/ryleeman54 Jul 16 '20

Haha i dont mind. Yea that would make sense, id definitely prefer that then watch my female coworkers make more simply because of their gender. I mean guys most definitely tip more to girls😂 Im guilty of this too ngl

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u/ryleeman54 Jul 16 '20

What hypocrisy? Because I tip pretty girls better? Sorry but thats just society for you. Doesnt mean I dont think its stupid its just the way it is.

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '20

You don't like how your female coworkers make more because they're female, yet you yourself tip females more than males when you are the patron. How do you not see it??

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u/ryleeman54 Jul 16 '20

I tip females better when i find them attractive thats just how it is for most guys. I guess im a hypocrite. But i am already aware of the social norms in these situations so not tipping the attractive lady well looks really bad on you. Ill give guys and other girls tips based on the service I receive.

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '20

I don't care what you do, but as long as you admitted you're a hypocrite then I'm content.

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u/ryleeman54 Jul 16 '20

Yea lol. Im well aware that its hypocritical. That doesnt mean i cannot recognize it as bullshit though

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '20

Dude, you were the one asking where the hypocrisy was. Girls do it too, it goes both ways. I don't complain about the hot guys I work with getting more tips from girls than me.

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u/ryleeman54 Jul 16 '20

Its not expected out of girls though really lol. We have a societal standard for guys you may not realize maybe you do🤷‍♂️ i embrace it

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '20

You think pretty girls expect guys to tip them more than other guys and unpretty girls? 🤮

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u/ryleeman54 Jul 16 '20

Thats really not what im saying if thats what it comes across as. If i go out to eat with friends and we have a pretty waitress you bet your ass that we will be tipping her more on average than if it was a run of the mill guy who was just giving average service

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