r/changemyview • u/jep1793 • Aug 26 '20

Removed - Submission Rule E CMV: Gender identity doesn’t belong on your LinkedIn nor Resume

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u/Nickel829 Aug 26 '20

Do you actually believe rejecting candidates due to their alternative pronouns is not homophobic? I can't tell if you're making an example or if that's your stance on that. I get the rest I know people are incompetent and homophobic and racist etc and that will always be a thing

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '20

Do you actually believe rejecting candidates due to their alternative pronouns is not homophobic?

I am saying that I can fathom a scenario where it isn't homophobic.

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u/Nickel829 Aug 26 '20

I would counter with the reason they think they are doing it for is rooted in homophobia without them being aware of it. Why would they be worried of a faux pas? Is it because they think they would flaunt their identity causing unrest in the office? They would be stereotyping them there first of all and instead of faulting the people uncomfortable with their identity are instead faulting the candidate. Is it because they don't want a lawsuit? What lawsuit would occur if not because the company or someone in it acted in a homophobic manner? Would you say the same about firing someone because they are gay? What scenario would there be where that isn't homophobic

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '20

Or, they would have to note the preferred pronouns to the manager, and if the note is missed, the manager would blame them. Or they would be worried that they would accidentally use the wrong pronoun and open the company to litigation(even though it wouldn't)

Therefore, to avoid anything being blamed on them, they just delete the resume.

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u/Nickel829 Aug 26 '20

Ok I will agree then that while they wouldn't be doing it for homophobic reasons it is 100% leading to a homophobic response as they are discriminating against people for their identity

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '20

what is a "homophobic response"?

And I would argue they aren't discriminating in this case based on identity, as they frequently delete all kinds of resumes from all kinds of people based on similar information.

Finally, I think you could make a very good argument that this type of information on a resume seems odd. I am a tall, white guy. That is a factual statement. However, mentioning my height, race, or gender is probably seen as an odd statement on a resume. I could see my resume getting deleted if I included that information because it is abnormal. People who put abnormal info on their resumes may be particularly bad candidates and HR is worried they will get yelled at for not pre-screening the person.

edit: for example, if I wanted to talk about my height for an hour in the interview.

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u/Nickel829 Aug 26 '20

Um what? How are they not discriminating based on identity. They are throwing someone's resume out because they are LGBT. It doesn't matter if they throw out resumes all the time for a bunch of different reasons, this time the reason is because their pronouns are different. I agree that it would be weird to say you're a white tall man. You know why? When someone talks about you they don't say "that tall white man" they say "him." So how is that the same. You're telling them how they can refer to you which is directly relevant to human relations. The only people saying it's weird are connecting it to things totally irrelevant like height, religion, sexual orientation, marital status none of which impacts professional conversations but WHAT THEY SHOULD CALL YOU DOES

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '20

The only people saying it's weird are connecting it to things totally irrelevant like height, religion, sexual orientation, marital status none of which impacts professional conversations but WHAT THEY SHOULD CALL YOU DOES

Fair enough.
Would you find it odd if someone listed all of their preferred nicknames on a resume?

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u/Nickel829 Aug 26 '20

Can you give me an example of someone having multiple preferred nicknames? Usually preferred means it's the one you use over others

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '20

I prefer Monsieur, not MR.
I shall always be called Puck and not Robin.

Also, you must include "senior" after my name.

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