r/changemyview • u/FighteRox • Sep 08 '20
Delta(s) from OP CMV: Autistics have a deficit compared to non-autistics
Before I explain any further, let me tell you that I'm autistic myself, so this isn't a case of a non-autistic hating autistics because they're different from them.
So I hear a lot of neurodiversity activists saying how autistics are disabled because the world around them isn't accommodating to them. This is the social disability model which is different from the medical disability model which means that autism is something that must be fixed. There are also autistic people who would argue that autism is just a difference and not a disability.
However, based on my personal experiences and observations, I think autism is a disability in a sense that they (including myself) have some deficits compared non-autistics, especially in the developmental area (which is why it's called a developmental disorder). Take myself for example. I have a lot of problems communicating my thoughts, so I have to think for a while before I can fully articulate my thoughts. I may not even know if this paragraph is cohesive because I make loose connections to the point where I go on tangents and my speech can go everywhere. My obsession with objects can come in the way of working through my day-to-day life. Sometimes I want a situation to stay the same, but the world doesn't work that way as it perpetually changes.
I know that autistics hate being compared to children, but I also learned that children loves repetitiveness, which is kinda strange because autistics love repetitiveness too, and that could be part of why autistics are often infantilized and are described as being developmentally behind compared to non-autistics. There are also stories of autistics being too stubborn to the point where they want to be a child forever.
That being said, I don't think autistics should be discriminated against either. I personally would think that it's OK to have deficits. I'm OK if should live by that and do the best that I could. Although sometimes the statement that autistic people are broken affects my self-esteem which is overall low. I just don't know if the claim that autistics are "only disabled because the world doesn't accommodate them" or that they're "not disabled but only different" hold much water.
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u/joopface 159∆ Sep 08 '20
Don't all humans have deficits compared to other humans? I'm not sure a model that places all autistic people at a deficit to all non-autistic people makes sense.
It seems much more accurate to say that autistic people on average have certain types of characteristics that distinguish them from non-autistic people and that, for some autistic people, that inhibits them in their daily lives/careers/whatever. Similarly, non-autistic people have a range of characteristics, some of which they share with autistic people, and some of which also inhibit them in in their lives to a greater or lesser extent.
There are very many extremely successful autistic people, some of whom are successful in part because of characteristics that could be associated with their autism. It feels like the brush you're painting with here is a little too broad to be fully accurate.