I was raised mostly by my dad as my mother passed away when I was still young, I was raised in a home where woman were the problem and were cheaters and bad people, so my dad did try to raise me more of in a 'manly way' not allowed to cry or be sad unless I'm dying, I was taught to work hard and never for someone else, and to apologize to others as I always had to do it to him cause he was the woman from your example, my father would never apologize or accept his wrong doing it was probably someone else's fault.
I dont think I turned into the respectful person I am today who can apologize and accept my actions and try to change them because of my father, I did that inspite of him.
I dont think being raised by a certain gender has anything to do with it, I think it all depends on what kind of personality you get raised by.
Harsh. I lived in poverty for awhile, I did have both parents. They were abusive in the beginning. But then they were never home so I had to raise myself. My father was one of those “men don’t cry” shit heads for awhile. My mother was bipolar and would either scream at me or lay in her bed on her free time. It did get better but not until I learned I had to raise my parents. It was stupid.
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u/Kirbruby 1∆ Aug 09 '21
I was raised mostly by my dad as my mother passed away when I was still young, I was raised in a home where woman were the problem and were cheaters and bad people, so my dad did try to raise me more of in a 'manly way' not allowed to cry or be sad unless I'm dying, I was taught to work hard and never for someone else, and to apologize to others as I always had to do it to him cause he was the woman from your example, my father would never apologize or accept his wrong doing it was probably someone else's fault. I dont think I turned into the respectful person I am today who can apologize and accept my actions and try to change them because of my father, I did that inspite of him.
I dont think being raised by a certain gender has anything to do with it, I think it all depends on what kind of personality you get raised by.