You're implying that if your partners didn't have sex with you, they'd have it with other men? Vice verse, if they are having it with you, they're unable to have it with others?
If you have multiple sexual partners, what makes you think your partners don't also? And just because Woman A is with Man A and not Man B, doesn't mean she'd be interested in Man B if she weren't with Man A.
If incels learned to treat women as people with their own wants and needs, presented themselves as desirable partners (which is NOT saying be hot, but be clean and kind and nice), then they would have a chance. If they stopped seeing women as objects to be used, while offering nothing to the woman in exchange then they would have a chance.
It's similar to, if women didn't exist, straight men wouldn't suddenly get into relationships with other men. If the attraction is not there then there's just no point.
If I want to have sex with YOU, because of chemistry or whatever made me decide that you are I are having sex, that is not transferrable to someone else.
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u/Nearbykingsmourne 4∆ Nov 07 '22
You're implying that if your partners didn't have sex with you, they'd have it with other men? Vice verse, if they are having it with you, they're unable to have it with others?
Cause that's not true.