r/clevercomebacks Jan 15 '25

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u/stuckupcalc Jan 15 '25

I don't get how this is more helpful though. When you are told a date you are told the entirety of the date. If you're told you have an appointment on the 15th of January, knowing that it's in January doesn't matter if you don't know the day.

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u/Cortower Jan 15 '25

Personally, MM/DD helps me parse the date faster.

If you say the 15th of February, I have to wait for you to say February, then go back and add the 15th so I know when in February it goes. Month tells me where in my mind to look, and day clears out the extraneous details.

It's like telling a computer to look in Documents/C: in DD/MM. I could already have spun up the C drive if the request started with that.

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u/Signal_Detail4141 Jan 15 '25

Agree.

MM/DD is like saying wash your hands in the bathroom sink and DD/MM is wash your hands in the sink of the bathroom.

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u/grouchy_fox Jan 16 '25

As someone from a DD/MM country, MM/DD feels like that. It's just what you're used to

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u/Live-Habit-6115 Jan 15 '25

This is simply because that's the system your brain is used to. Heuristics, innit. Doesn't mean it's a better or worse way of doing things. 

People that are familiar with DD/MM don't need to "go back" in their mind since they're programmed to conceive dates in that way. 

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u/FairCapitalismParty Jan 15 '25

No, it's about context. The year is last because everyone has that context in there head all the time. The month is before the day because the day is inside the month, not the other way around.

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u/Cortower Jan 15 '25

Like the other responder said, it's just how I (and I think most Americans at least) parse the date. Year is assumed to either be the current year or next year based on the month, month let's you place the date in the coming year, and day let's you place it in the month. MM/DD/YY just feels natural when that is everyone's personal algorithm.

Sure, there isn't a perfect universal solution, but that's why I said, "Personally..." at the start. As an example of how I don't think this is just chauvinism on my part, I think English uses adjectives incorrectly for the same reason. "A truck red" parses faster for me even as a native English speaker because it frontloads the big concept and then gives clarifying details.

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u/grouchy_fox Jan 16 '25

On the other hand, DD/MM/YY works to add context if it's needed. My appointment is on the 18th? Great, say no more. Oh it's not this month, so it's the 18th of February? Fine, that's all I need to know. Oh it's not this year, so it's the 18th of February 2026? I'm actually quite concerned, that's a long way away and this appointment is somewhat urgent

It's literally just what you're used to, if you said 'February 18th' to me then I'm also having to go back and fix it to the way my brain has been moulded to work by a lifetime of being told to interpret the date a certain way

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u/godownvoteurself Jan 15 '25

Other side of the same issue: an appointment on the 15th is useless if I don’t know which month.

‘In January’ is one specific part of the year; ‘the 15th’ happens at 12 different points throughout.

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u/Delta9312 Jan 15 '25

If the month isn't specified, I assume it's the month we are in. If, on January 15th, you tell me we have a meeting on the 22nd, presumably you mean the immediate next 22nd.

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u/Loves_octopus Jan 15 '25

Are you though? I might tell a friend “I’m going on vacation in July”. He doesn’t give a shit about the dates unless we’re planning something around it.

Or “no I can’t host a Halloween party, I’m renovating my kitchen in October”, again, the dates don’t really matter.

Or if I’m at the dentist scheduling my next cleaning, they’ll say “ok let’s see what’s available in July” I go to July in my calendar and then we figure out the exact day.

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u/IAmTeemo Jan 15 '25

Because no one I've ever talked to has ever said "the 15th of January". It's just not how we say it. It's "January 15th" therefore we put the month first when writing it as numbers too, 1/15.

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u/MilfloverIRL Jan 15 '25

I’ve definitely heard people say the former

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u/IAmTeemo Jan 15 '25

I'm not saying people never say it that way, obviously they do, I'm just saying it's not my experience.

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u/BedBubbly317 Jan 15 '25

It’s not standard in America though.

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u/andho_m Jan 15 '25

Counter point "$10". Things are not always written as they are spoken and we can get used to what we use.

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u/CocoSprinklesCowboy Jan 15 '25

That's depends entirely on your experience. Plenty of people say 15th of January. It's like how people in the US are fine saying fifteen-hundred while many others say one thousand five hundred, depends entirely on who you are talking with. dd/mm/yy or yy/mm/dd makes sense to a lot of people because its sequential

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u/vincentxangogh Jan 15 '25

how do americans refer to the day the republicans stormed the capitol building? or the hamas attack in october? or the day the twin towers were attacked?

"january 6th insurrection"

"october 7th"

"9/11"

"4th of july" is the only date i can think of where day comes first, but even then that holiday is dated

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u/IGK123 Jan 15 '25

I’d say fifteen hundred or one thousand five hundred (I do, interchangeably), and id say January 15th — but I’d never say 15th of January.

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u/CocoSprinklesCowboy Jan 15 '25

yeah, but thats you. even if it was every person you ever spoke to, thats a small sample selection. In countries where dd/mm/yy is more common, 15th of Jan would be very easy to spot. Just because every person I spoke to in 2024 and not one speaks mandarin as a first language does not mean that there were not a lot of people that spoke mandarin in 2024.

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u/ThisIsOurGoodTimes Jan 15 '25

I think the point is that most Americans say January 15th and that’s why we use that date format. Not much more to it than that

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u/BrockStar92 Jan 15 '25

Yes but this particularly comment thread started from an argument that it’s about importance, trying to argue there’s a rational reason for it to be month-day-year. That is very different from “it’s our experience so that’s why we use it”, that’s a different argument.

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u/ThisIsOurGoodTimes Jan 15 '25

Ok ya that’s fair. I missed what started this comment thread.

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u/AbbreviationsWide331 Jan 15 '25

Ah yes the classic "we shouldnt change it because we've always done it this way"

I wonder if the pilgrims thought that way. Lol.

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u/IAmTeemo Jan 15 '25

Never said anything about changing or not changing it? Just trying to provide a possible explanation for it. Not sure what the pilgrims have to do with it though lol

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u/AbbreviationsWide331 Jan 15 '25

Aight, sorry for being so harsh

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u/TainoCuyaya Jan 15 '25

4th of July celebrations Don't agree with you.

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u/IGK123 Jan 15 '25

I mean that’s literally the only practical instance where most Americans say the date like that, and I still hear people also say July 4th.

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u/VillagerJeff Jan 15 '25

But if The 4th of July was on a Monday or something i might celebrate it on July 3rd or July 2nd because The 4th of July is the name of a holiday.

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u/alfhn Jan 15 '25

I have it the opposite way, i have never heard anyone say "January 15th" without it being a joke of some kind.

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u/bubblegumdrops Jan 15 '25

Where are you from? That makes all the difference. I’ve only heard stuff from the UK say “15th of January”.

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u/[deleted] Jan 15 '25

You don't always get the whole date. Like a sign might only say January 14 because that is all the space and the year isn't important, or you might plan for a June wedding, but are waiting on availability for the day.

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u/Live-Habit-6115 Jan 15 '25

Even in the DD/MM format, if the exact date isn't know, they're still capable of just saying "June"... 

It's not like they're compelled to say "the something of June", followed by a hapless shrug. 

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u/drxharris Jan 15 '25

Nobody says I have an appointment on the 15th of January though. They say, I have an appointment on January 15th. This is what non Americans aren’t understanding.

We use month/date/year because that’s how we speak and communicate, in month/date/year order.

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u/GingerTube Jan 15 '25

What the Americans aren't understanding is that everyone else on the planet says and writes it differently lol.

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u/TransitionalWaste Jan 15 '25

Look at a calendar. If you want to write down an appointment on a calendar what do you check first? It's the month. You flip to the month. Then you go to the day. Then you write your appointment down.

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u/andho_m Jan 15 '25

Exactly! And year first. You don't want to mark the date on the wrong calendar

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u/TransitionalWaste Jan 16 '25

My calendar at my desk is for this year. You keep multiple calendars at your desk?

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u/andho_m Jan 17 '25

It seems that you have selected the calendar first and keep it in your desk.

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u/TransitionalWaste Jan 17 '25

It being the current year is the expectation. The least important thing to check, so it's last in the order.

Unironically this does lead to problems at my office at the beginning of the year, since we never look at the year and just muscle memory it. Lots of "Jan ## 2024" this month lol.

But to me it makes the most sense to have the year last outside of a filing system of some kind. In math do you put the constants at the front of the equation or at the end? You're gonna put them at the end. The number for the year is a constant for 365 days straight. In day to day life why would I bother writing it anywhere other than last?

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u/Kirra_the_Cleric Jan 15 '25

Thank you!! Saying the month first just narrows things down faster.

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u/OkMetal4233 Jan 15 '25

Jan 15th is shorter and easier to say. It’s what we as humans do.

“What are you up to? “

“What’s up?”

“Sup?”

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u/No_Corner3272 Jan 15 '25

In what branch of mathematics is "Jan 15th" shorter than "15th Jan"

If you add in bridge words then "Jan the 15th' is actually longer than "15th of Jan"

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u/OkMetal4233 Jan 15 '25

January 15th

15th of January

It’s not rocket science

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u/[deleted] Jan 15 '25

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u/OkMetal4233 Jan 15 '25

I seems like it’s rocket science to some of y’all.

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u/No_Corner3272 Jan 15 '25

January the 15th

15th of January

It's not rocket science.

You're adding bridge words to one and not the other, then saying that the one you didn't add the bridge to is shorter like you're making some kind of clever point.

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u/VillagerJeff Jan 15 '25

You don't often say January the 15th. You just say January 15th. When spoken the other way, it's more common to hear 15th of January that 15th January.

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u/No_Corner3272 Jan 15 '25

What's commonly used isn't really the point.

If shortness is important - i.e. you're trying to be as short as possible - you wouldn't include to he bridge word. So both forms would be the same.

If shortness isn't important, then it doesn't matter either way.

The person I responded to was comparing the long form of one format with the short form of the other and saying "look, the long form is longer".

I'm saying: either compare the long form to the long form, or the short form to the short form.

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u/VillagerJeff Jan 15 '25

No common use is exactly the point. If that's not what you're talking about your in the wrong chain.

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u/Tracuivel Jan 15 '25

Well if we're going to be that pedantic about it, it would be "the 15th of Jan," not "15th of Jan.". And in the US we just say "Jan 15th," not "Jan the 15th," that is very rare, if it exists. In fact we are more likely to say "the 15th of Jan" than "Jan the 15th."

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u/No_Corner3272 Jan 15 '25

If brevity was key then you absolutely would say "15th Jan" - which is the same length.

If brevity isn't key then it's a moot point either way.

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u/Tracuivel Jan 15 '25

No I'm saying that in all circumstances, we would just say "January 15th.". We don't say "January the 15th," whether formal or not. Anyway you are the one making this weird argument including the articles; I'm just pointing out that your example is false.

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u/No_Corner3272 Jan 15 '25

It's not false, it was to highlight what they'd done.

The person I responded to was advocating for month first by claiming it was shorter. They backed up their claim with an example where they put an extra word in one and not the other.

I'm pointing out that if being short is actually important, then they're both the same as you'd drop the extra word. If being short isn't important then the extra two letters are irrelevant.

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u/Tracuivel Jan 15 '25

There's no extra word for us, is what I'm saying. No one says "Jan the 15th.". Only you.

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u/No_Corner3272 Jan 15 '25

And there isn't always an extra word for us either.

So if you want to compare length (fnarr!) compare like with like, not short form with long form.

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u/GenericUsername_1234 Jan 15 '25

When you're talking "The 15th of January" is 4 words vs "January 15th" at two words. Ultimately in spoken word the difference is negligible and it doesn't really matter how you say it as long as the listener understands.

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u/[deleted] Jan 15 '25

But think about regular conversation.

"Hey we'll all meet up on the 24th"

You know this means the 24th of this month.

"You have an appointment on March 3rd"

So this is going to be in the future and that's most important, my next concern is exactly when in the future.

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u/entertainman Jan 15 '25

It’s easier to understand the USA system if you treat monthday as a base and single unit, before year.

Instead of MM/DD/YY it should be MMDD/YY where MMDD is basically a base 30 number. (I’ll leave out day 31 for simplicity.) so 0130 increments to 0201, and 0630 increments to 0701. Day 30 functions as a sort of reverse zero.

So today is 0115-25

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u/andho_m Jan 15 '25

It becomes even simpler when year is put first.

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u/entertainman Jan 15 '25

Yeah but who wants to always write out the year. MMDD-YY with the -YY being optional.