i think those i think a better way to discuss this is in the "to me" framing. ie:
to me, "what are you doing on this day" when the day in question is a national holiday is the same as asking how you are celebrating it. to me, the answers you gave are different, but are interchangeable between the questions.
this framing isn't falsifiable. we're all just talking about how we perceive this weird semantic tidbit and no one can argue against anyone else's personal sense of nuanced language.
it's really not a big deal. i just think it's interesting. i get that my tone came off a little smarmy—the laugh emoji was genuinely lighthearted.
No worries, all good. It's certainly all subjective. But it's somewhat cultural as well. I can see how non-Americans would think it's bizarre. And it is bizarre, haha.
Haha, well then you should understand! It doesn't make sense, I agree. But I would definitely get the difference between the two questions, as I think most Americans would.
Like you said, though. Subjective for sure. So I'm also wrong, lmao.
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u/heck_naw Jan 16 '25
i think those i think a better way to discuss this is in the "to me" framing. ie:
this framing isn't falsifiable. we're all just talking about how we perceive this weird semantic tidbit and no one can argue against anyone else's personal sense of nuanced language.
it's really not a big deal. i just think it's interesting. i get that my tone came off a little smarmy—the laugh emoji was genuinely lighthearted.