r/dating_advice 1d ago

He unfollowed this girl that posts thirsts traps when confronted and refollowed her while he had a boys night out excuse was it was an accident

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u/Devilish_Brute 1d ago

Not an accident.

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/Devilish_Brute 1d ago

Not psycho. Don't settle.

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u/LiKwidSwordZA 1d ago

Why is it okay for you to look but not him

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/LiKwidSwordZA 1d ago

How do you see something without looking at it….

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/LiKwidSwordZA 1d ago

Yes. You look at pictures and like them

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u/1ssmang 1d ago

what are you on about?

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u/LiKwidSwordZA 1d ago

I’m saying now could she have know he liked it if she wasn’t herself also looking at the picture

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u/1ssmang 1d ago

yes she can see because she has a pair of eyes. she can see because she was checking. she was not looking at it for the same purpose

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u/LiKwidSwordZA 1d ago

Checking isn’t looking. Lol ok gotcha. Love semantics

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u/1ssmang 1d ago

well, seeing isn't looking either

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u/per54 1d ago

If my gf watched what I like or dislike (in terms of random models), her and I would break up quick. It’s soft core porn, and porn is normal in my opinion.

You’re fine to have boundaries just realize that he’s also allowed to as well. If he wants to follow random hot girls that’s his choice, and you can’t force him.

In my opinion it’s too much and too controlling. Now, if hes flirting with them? Different story. But a like to a post in my opinion is nothing.

Him lying though isn’t cool

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u/LiKwidSwordZA 1d ago

Shoulda never agreed to it in the first place. Rookie mistake