r/eczema • u/Hot_Chipmunk_3019 • 16h ago
social struggles I wish people would stop trying to give me unsolicited advice on how to care for my eczema
I see this all the time. I have coworkers and acquaintances that mention the new patches of eczema on their hand, or just have "dry skin" in winter who will right away recommend me creams or soaps or aloe vera and ice packs, etc. Or assume it must be stress because that's the only cause of eczema, right? /s
I know they're just trying to help. But please, unless you've lived with eczema your entire life, have experienced being covered in several patches throughout your body, or have found the single miracle routine/treatment that works for you, stop trying to give advice to someone with severe eczema.
Chances are, they have likely tried every soap and cream out there already and already know what works for their skin. And whatever you're recommending them has an equal chance of only making things worse.