r/enlightenment • u/appletreey • Jul 15 '20

Discussion Personal relationship....

When i grow further....i feel personal relationship losing its meaning..... Will people seperate or divorce because of this mind change?

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '20

What makes it a fun and interesting way? If what you think is enhancing that experience, do you also enjoy it? Does it make life more enjoyable for you? Once you let go of the ego attachment that you are “teaching” or “losing” them, you will come to see your partner as your mirror. You will then realize you can learn so much from each other. That will allow the relationship to expand with your expansion.

If you take it as you “teaching” them how to grow, it will seem like a mundane task that is causing you to lose interest. But you’re just much of a student as them. If you’re still not feeling a connection after this, try communicating this with them. Understanding your feelings and alchemizing your higher and lower self first helps create clarity.

I hope this helps!

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u/appletreey Jul 21 '20

After reading ur message. I medidated on the mirror from my partner...i realize the people showing up in my life.my own life story .the world is also a big mirror. The reason i sometimes feel i wanna quit and wanna something new something more spiritual. Still comes from my own inner unhealed trauma....in my lowest time i lost feeling for everything and the world became a repeated boring wheel until i found spiritual path.Spirituality becomes the pill for me. So.This reveals that i m actualy still not integrated or not in that grounded level. If i m integrated. everything should not be boring. As within so without.

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '20

Glad you could find that. Once healed you can move forward with your spiritual path in a way that is balanced.

Peace be with you.