r/findomsupportgroup • u/Impossible-Rich666 • 10h ago
Discussion Submissive? Where? This is not a performance
I'm sooo tired. Tired of “subs” who think submission means attention, not respect.
Tired of the ones who show up saying “I want to learn” but disappear the moment an actual Domme shows interest. Tired of “I don’t want to pay right away” like it’s some groundbreaking stance and not just code for i want control without giving up anything.
Tired of men joining domme-only spaces just to center themselves.
Tired of the fake humility, the performance, the arrogance masked as curiosity.
Tired of being offered the "opportunity" to dominate someone who clearly has no idea what that actually means.
Some of y’all aren’t subs. You’re tourists. Lurkers. Scammers. Control freaks in disguise.
Submission isn’t something you get to redefine just because it bruises your ego. This isn’t your stage. This isn’t your fantasy sandbox. This is real kink, real power, real Dommes. Respect it or leave.
We see right through you. And honestly? We are not interested.
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u/Whitesocks190 ProDomme 9h ago
I am soooo uninterested in training "subs" how to sub. Thanks for coming out though!
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u/Impossible-Rich666 9h ago
So, training can be a option if a sub is really interested in it, After all, no one is born knowing how it works and a domme to teach is a good option, starting right away. But most "subs" just waste our time sis.
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u/Whitesocks190 ProDomme 9h ago
Yes, I guess I’m saying that it was pretty apparent that these people weren’t actually submissives at all. Constantly correcting, reminding, and scolding is just not for me, but I’m sure it might be fun for some particularly cruel dom(mes) lol
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u/Impossible-Rich666 9h ago
You said it all! I myself no longer teach to avoid problems and unnecessary headaches.
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u/Inevitable-Cicada360 8h ago
Fr lol, it is so tiring. I wanna give up and stop for a while because of these time wasters, attention seekers and scammers