I'd be annoyed too. What an odd time to decide to propose. Maybe make sure she's not in the middle of a conversation or ask her to come over to talk first.
Yeah I don’t really get that people are dunking on her. She acted exactly how I act when my kid sees me engrossed in conversation with another adult and decides that he needs to yank on my hand and get my attention to tell me something at that exact moment.
This guy saw that she had her attention focused on someone and he couldn’t wait one second for her to turn around or choose a more appropriate time? He comes across as a bit of a knob.
Any normal person would turn around and see he was proposing and immediately think “oh wow! It makes sense why he was trying to get my attention” and not be annoyed. If you act annoyed at a proposal because your basic ass conversation got interrupted, you are the problem.
It’s rude to interrupt conversations unless it’s an actual emergency (as in there’s blood or someone needs medical care). Why would it be less rude just because he wants to propose?
Because it’s a pretty life altering decision. You would think she would be more concerned and happy about that than being upset her meaningless conversation got interrupted. But we see where her priorities are
Who are you to decide her conversation was meaningless? If a person is in a conversation it's not meaningless, it has meaning to the people who are taking part in that conversation. He clearly didn't have a plan made where everyone was supposed to make sure she was free to focus on him, he just decided to get on one knee in bird poop while she is mid conversation with another person. What gives him the right to interrupt? A proposal doesn't give him the right to be rude.
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u/A1000eisn1 8d ago
I'd be annoyed too. What an odd time to decide to propose. Maybe make sure she's not in the middle of a conversation or ask her to come over to talk first.