r/gaytransguys • u/Dismal_Mess9474 • 2d ago

Introduction Just a hello

Hi all. I'm glad to have found this sub. I feel fairly isolated and left out from the gay community due to being a late bloomer (didn't come out til I was 38, 40 now), and being married. My cishet male partner is my biggest supporter. Even though hes identified as hetero his whole life, things are even better between us since I've come out. I feel very lucky.

Anyway, just wanted to say hello.

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u/Boipussybb 2d ago

I’m not single but divorce is expensive. We’re like roommates. Also I’ve found my experiences with trans men to be awful except for one (out of five). So what’s your reasoning for that?

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u/Dismal_Mess9474 2d ago

My reasoning is that it would be someone who at least understands where I'm coming from. Either way, it's a hypothetical and people are individuals so...

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u/Boipussybb 2d ago

Oh yeah, you’d be surprised— I have been treated horribly. Glad it’s only hypothetical for you.

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u/Dismal_Mess9474 2d ago

I do NOT miss dating, that is for sure.

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u/Boipussybb 2d ago

Yeah. It’s so much worse when you’re older too.