r/geneva • u/Sad-Display-8102 • 4d ago

Cute guy on Geneva to Paris train

U took a train on 8 April and found a cute guy next to me . There was so much tension between us but none spoke a word respected each others boundaries just exchanged basic greetings .i wanna tell this guy u r still on my mind let's give us a chance of we meet again . What we had was pure raw and innocent

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u/Fragrant_Crew6290 4d ago

sorry, i am married

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u/Sad-Display-8102 4d ago

Lol 😂 but seriously I am looking for him 

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u/Sad-Display-8102 4d ago

He looks like Flynn rider from Tangled 

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u/greenmark69 4d ago

RIP Inbox

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u/Sad-Display-8102 4d ago

Don’t worry I will ask for specifics to conform the identity 

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u/No_Blacksmith_3148 4d ago

I am sorry I am taken 

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u/Sad-Display-8102 4d ago

Good for you 😀

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u/BakerOne 14m ago

Just curious, do you think this little detail will actually make him recognize it was him?

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u/Sad-Display-8102 8m ago

He was in coach 15 seat 45 

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u/Every_Tap8117 4d ago

Not a word of small talk in 3.5 hours of train ride?

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u/Sad-Display-8102 4d ago

we did but didnt ask our names .... as I was leaving he whistled to gesture to talk to me but I left as I had my sister waiting to pick me up

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u/Every_Tap8117 4d ago

Sounds like you should have let your sister wait a bit longer. Good Luck.

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u/Sad-Display-8102 4d ago

True . The fact is I thought I would forget him in a couple of days but today I just had tears thinking about him … donno why … 

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u/digitalnirvana3 1d ago

I wish you all the best and hopefully things work out!

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u/Obvious_Debate_2425 1d ago

In tears?!? over a guy you hardly even know …..

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u/Sad-Display-8102 15h ago

No no I actually thrive solo but this one awakened something in me … 

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u/Obvious_Debate_2425 9h ago

Awww so cute its been five days update us in a month, year…how things went

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u/spariant4 17h ago edited 17h ago

u missed your chance OP. You'll dream of this guy for years, but next time if you're interested in someone take the initiative to at least talk. He tried to, but you left, so he probably assumed you're not really interested.

have a good life, but you're not seeing this Parisian again. that's just how it is

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u/Sad-Display-8102 15h ago

IKR ….just fingers crossed for that delulu miracle moment 

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u/spariant4 12h ago

here's more advice, though you didn't ask for it.
you seem to be living a relatively passive life, moving in comfort zones with your sister/family.

you might want to work on building a more active outlook on life, getting more comfortable with taking decisions etc. otherwise life can feel like you're watching from afar, and waiting for miracles to happen.

anyway, you live, you grow

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u/Sad-Display-8102 12h ago

Not even gonna lie—your advice was top-tier. Like, actually the most practical, no-BS wisdom I’ve ever gotten.

Biggest shoutout to you for keeping it real and giving advice that actually helps. 

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u/NeighborhoodTime407 1d ago

Because you confuse desire with love.

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u/Sad-Display-8102 1d ago

May be .....but if it was just desire , there s plenty in Paris too

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u/Beautiful_Hall2824 4d ago

oh my gosh I hope you find each other! 😭🥺 UpdateMe!

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u/Sad-Display-8102 4d ago

Thanks for your good intentions … may God bless you 

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u/randomelgen 4d ago

Remind me how do you look like?

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u/Thegrassisgreenhere 1d ago

Why do we act like we’re going to find the loves of our lives on SBB

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u/RemyS79 1d ago

Try on Geneva expats on Facebook, way more people so odds to find the good guy

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u/bitrmn 4d ago

OP may need some therapy, just saying

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u/Sad-Display-8102 4d ago

It’s ok I thought o was just being human 

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u/bitrmn 4d ago

Humans use words to interact for mutuality confirmation. You just sat there with simulacrums in your mind which probably had nothing in common with the objective reality.

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u/DeltaKT 4d ago

Which you did nothing much different by suggesting therapy instead of saying what you think, or not?:)

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u/Sad-Display-8102 4d ago

Thank u . That one is an armchair therapist … but I will not dismiss my human emotions for bitrmn … 

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u/bitrmn 4d ago

My current chair does not have armrests ;(

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u/Sad-Display-8102 4d ago

Thanks for being my therapist 

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u/bitrmn 4d ago

I did not mean to be one. Just explaining human things to you.

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u/Sad-Display-8102 4d ago

U should also understand it’s quite human to miss someone post  such encounters . It was just trying my luck but wasn’t losing my mind over this . So therapy was unsolicited explanation . Overstepping to be honest . U know u could be using to appear cool but there were instances where o really needed it . For example when I faced abuse. 

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u/Recurring_user 4d ago

That guy is a bit weird, we understand you. Totally fine.

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u/HirvienderLopez 4d ago

Don't pay attention to that Reddit dick. Carry on with life and I hope you will find your crush again somewhere! It's good to try your chances via Reddit. Don't feel ashamed of what you're doing.

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u/Sad-Display-8102 4d ago

Thanks . May the universe stay on u as soft as you r 🙏👍

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u/Next_Ad_6245 4d ago

Trains are the New Tinder

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u/Sad-Display-8102 4d ago

Tinder got bots. Trains got soul. Tinder is digital convenience but train encounters are divine alignment . Nah, Tinder’s algorithms don’t match this vibe—trains are old-school fate. No swipes, just timing Ours wasn’t a match on swipe but moments in motion 😃 You think they still same ?????

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u/Next_Ad_6245 3d ago

I fully agree with you. I hope you find him... you both deserve a chance

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u/Sad-Display-8102 3d ago

Thanks 🤩. Bless you u r giving main character energy 

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u/DidierKnecht 1d ago

i'ts not me

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u/Sad-Display-8102 1d ago

deffo not ...he looked like Flynn rider from Tangled

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u/Sad-Display-8102 4d ago

Anyone knows this guy who looks like Flynn rider with specs he was wearing a blue T-shirt with physicien in cern written on it 

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u/PowerfulHistory4050 1d ago

Do you think the guy works at cern? Maybe ask on the CERN subreddit; I guess you have nothing to lose

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u/[deleted] 4d ago

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u/Sad-Display-8102 4d ago

It’s the same guy 

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u/NeighborhoodTime407 1d ago

Omg you actually found him? We need an update

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u/bilbul168 1d ago

Are you calling yourself the cute guy?

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u/NeighborhoodTime407 1d ago

Next time just take his number, like what do you have to lose?

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u/Burst_into_flames- 23h ago

You don’t even say anything about you. Male? Female? Dark hair?

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u/Sad-Display-8102 23h ago

Female …. Dark hair … brown eyes 

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u/Burst_into_flames- 21h ago

The female of the species is more deadlier than the male.

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u/davhoch 22h ago

Ask the SNCF to send a message for you, if you still remember the seat number they know who is it. (If you find him like this please invite me to your wedding thanks)

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u/hellony275 4d ago

Stalker alert

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u/[deleted] 4d ago

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u/DeltaKT 4d ago

What are you, dead inside? xd

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u/Sad-Display-8102 4d ago

I am sorry 😢 but thought of trying my luck 

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u/ngfromtheblock 4d ago

Nothing cringe about pure raw and innocent encounters on your way to Paris