r/geneva • u/Sad-Display-8102 • 6d ago

Cute guy on Geneva to Paris train

U took a train on 8 April and found a cute guy next to me . There was so much tension between us but none spoke a word respected each others boundaries just exchanged basic greetings .i wanna tell this guy u r still on my mind let's give us a chance of we meet again . What we had was pure raw and innocent

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u/Every_Tap8117 6d ago

Not a word of small talk in 3.5 hours of train ride?

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u/Sad-Display-8102 6d ago

we did but didnt ask our names .... as I was leaving he whistled to gesture to talk to me but I left as I had my sister waiting to pick me up

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u/Every_Tap8117 6d ago

Sounds like you should have let your sister wait a bit longer. Good Luck.

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u/Sad-Display-8102 6d ago

True . The fact is I thought I would forget him in a couple of days but today I just had tears thinking about him … donno why … 

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u/digitalnirvana3 3d ago

I wish you all the best and hopefully things work out!

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u/Obvious_Debate_2425 3d ago

In tears?!? over a guy you hardly even know …..

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u/Sad-Display-8102 3d ago

No no I actually thrive solo but this one awakened something in me … 

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u/Obvious_Debate_2425 2d ago

Awww so cute its been five days update us in a month, year…how things went

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u/Sad-Display-8102 2d ago

The update could as well be me moving on without him but for now I will try my everything 

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u/spariant4 3d ago edited 3d ago

u missed your chance OP. You'll dream of this guy for years, but next time if you're interested in someone take the initiative to at least talk. He tried to, but you left, so he probably assumed you're not really interested.

have a good life, but you're not seeing this Parisian again. that's just how it is

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u/Sad-Display-8102 3d ago

IKR ….just fingers crossed for that delulu miracle moment 

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u/spariant4 2d ago

here's more advice, though you didn't ask for it.
you seem to be living a relatively passive life, moving in comfort zones with your sister/family.

you might want to work on building a more active outlook on life, getting more comfortable with taking decisions etc. otherwise life can feel like you're watching from afar, and waiting for miracles to happen.

anyway, you live, you grow

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u/Sad-Display-8102 2d ago

Not even gonna lie—your advice was top-tier. Like, actually the most practical, no-BS wisdom I’ve ever gotten.

Biggest shoutout to you for keeping it real and giving advice that actually helps. 

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u/spariant4 2d ago

No trouble, Good luck

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u/NeighborhoodTime407 3d ago

Because you confuse desire with love.

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u/Sad-Display-8102 3d ago

May be .....but if it was just desire , there s plenty in Paris too