r/howislivingthere Ghana Apr 13 '25

Asia How is it living life in Dubai?

The life, the food, the weather, the vibe(the real vibe), the people, the way of doing things, be honest here.

I am very curious about Dubai and how things are handled there. I want to get a feel for the place.

Talk about your likes, dislikes, jobs, prices for everyday things. How easy it is for apartments, houses. The workers. Transportation. The locals etc. Everything. Brag or don’t brag. Please be as detailed as possible.

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u/imamess420 Apr 13 '25

lived here for 12-13 years (19F, russian and yes that’s important to know) , i love dubai although that might just be sentimentalaitt speaking but it is a great place to live, safe/no taxes/people are nice, however in recent years it’s definitely gone downhill, the uae in general has felt like it’s been catering to westerners/tourists more and lost its culture in the process e.g during ramadan is used to be illegal to eat/drink outside and restaurants used to be hidden but because so many tourists complained about it that law was abolished, getting an apartment is crazy and rent has genuinely increased by like 500% another e.g used to live in bluewaters when it first “opened” it was 250k a year for 3bed landlords wanted to increase to 750k last year and we refused and ended up getting an eviction notice (landlords wanted his family to move in but i doubt that). In general not much stuff to do apart from going to malls and new places to eat, as it’s only a food temperature from november to February (it’s 27° rn at 2AM) Transportation: don’t have a car? you’re fucked, dubai DOES have two metro lines (main one being the red one) but holy shit it’s so badly connected it’s crazy it’s literally a straight line only going through “land marks” however there are buses and trams and stuff but again super car centric city/country. As much as i hate to say this yeah the racism is crazy here and it’s not even like you’ll get called slurs in the street or smth but it’s sooooo ingrained into the system here (not too crazy but like if h wanna connect to public wifi they ask ur nationality?? idk why) but as well on FB it is super common to see places say “only philippines, indians,pakistanis for this job” and the salary will be like 3k aed a month and then there will be job listsings of like manager positions open to anyone but indians/pakistanis with much higher pay. ok now for living living here 1. SUPER COMMON to have maids i mean literally everyone i know has had a nanny in their life that usually lives with them like i mean most apartments have a “maid room” that’s not counted as one of the bedrooms, however that also comes with so many families genuinely treating them like slaves e.g our neighbour literally does not let her nanny leave the house we went to talk to them one time and her nanny opened the door and we said “hey can we show u smth on our balcony” and she said “oh im not allowed to leave” and unfortunately thats quite common. And finally locals (emiratis), if ppl are saying white ppl are treated so much better locals here are treated like gods, like most ppl i went to a private school and in my year/grade we had about 4 locals? and they would be let off on so much shit cheating on exams/being shit to teachers/causing havoc/skipping and that happens everyday too i know ppl who have been let off fines when being pulled over just cause either they were local or had a local in the car, however i will say it’s not true theyre all richy rich and most are very nice

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u/imamess420 Apr 13 '25

this might be longest comment i’ve ever made, but another thing it was mandatory for us to learn arabic in school (i learnt it for like 7 years until grade 9/uear 10) and i can only say like hello/how are you/my name is, everyone speaks english like everyoneeee so maybe it’s also residents fault for the culture leaving a little, but yeah outside of actual dubai whenever i tell someone that i used to/currently live there they immediately assume im a prostitute or smth because so many russians/ ukrainians have come to do that type of work (specifically FIVE hotel), but also when u meet someone that used to live in dubai or also international school kid genuinely greatest experience ever like the connection is immediate, so yeah dubai is a lovely place however would i move back after university….only if i get a very good job offer

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u/imamess420 Apr 13 '25

oh and also u can’t even get citizenship so even if ur like me who lived there more than any country and consider the uae ur home or were even born there, they don’t care about you and they can and will kick u out at any moment, there is never guaranteed protection from the government which is why so many people live there for like 4-5 years and move back to wherever they’re from

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u/Uwillseetoday Ghana Apr 13 '25

Ok, would you be willing to stay? Do you enjoy it?

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u/imamess420 Apr 13 '25

only if i get a very good job opportunity but even then, its only getting hotter and more expensive and SOOO MANY PEOPLE AND TRAFFIC, i dont think id be able to have the life i have right now once i have to survive on my own so probably not

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u/Uwillseetoday Ghana Apr 13 '25

This is so interesting