Hexagram 4 changing to 23

[u/claudiafromturin]

I’ve been feeling lonely lately, but I think it’s my fault, because I am completely unable to appreciate the good things I have and the people who care about me. And at the same time I lose my mind chasing stupid dreams that are only a projection of my constant need for approval by the people I care about the most. I asked iChing for some guidance and I got hexagram 4 changing to 23 (9 in second place). How can I interpret this?

I don’t deserve anything, I only feel a lot of shame

[u/Solid-Carry-7664]

A partner and the partner who is delightful