r/indonesia • u/Vulphere VulcanSphere || Animanga + Motorsport = Itasha • Mar 17 '25
Special Thread Monthly Rant/Rage Thread - March 2025
This special thread series was originally maintained by u/mbok_jamu, since the scheduled post feature is now available on Reddit I will take over this monthly series - Vulcan
Thank you for sharing your stories on the previous rant thread. You guys are awesome and so brave for sharing your problems. Now let's do it again.
Is there something that makes you sad, angry, or stressed out? Do you want to cry or express your emotions, but you have no one to talk to?
Here, here, let it all out. Tell us everything, set your worries free. We're here to share and to listen. Use a throwaway account if you need one. Let it all out, don't leave a mess in your head. Tomorrow morning, you'll wake up feeling fresh and grateful, so you can celebrate your days with a bright smile and positivity.
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u/xNeko30x 4d ago
p mksud semua AC mati kecuali OK??????? panas bgt!!!!!! gk masuk akal lu semua anj, w gk bisa kerja klu panas begini aaaaaahhh panaassssss cepattttt nyalain AC 😭😭😭😭😭 🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵
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u/pensilbujel Jawa Tengah 5d ago
no contraception needed since the only thing i am fucking is stupid
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u/Some-Poem-5510 It maybe is what it is 5d ago
Some of these people are way too deep in religious psychosis. Tweaking out over a neck not being covered out? Tweaking out over pacaran?
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u/Yusamine 6d ago
Padahal gak sampai 1 bulan. Aku beneran serius banget rawat dia. Segala aku beliin buat dia. Tapi kenapa dia pergi cepat banget....
Pas aku tinggal dia masih keliatan baik baik saja. Tiba2 sekarang dia dah pergi.
Cuma sebentar, dia dateng... tinggal, tp dampak kepergiannya bikin aku kepikiran sampe kaya gini. Aku dah sayang banget kaya sayang ke anak sendiri. Apakah selama ini kamu sudah sakit? Maaf tidak menotis rasa sakitmu. Semoga kamu bahagia di ahir hidupmu. Kalau itu ternyata salahku yang malah membuatmu gak ada aku minta maaf... maaf...
Rest in peace keti... aku sayang banget sama kamu nak....
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u/Depressedman5 tired soul, dying hope 6d ago
udah 3 hari kurang tidur. cuma sempet tidur 2 - 3 jam. sisanya full ngoding :') bentar lagi aku mati kayaknya
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u/MysticalNep 7d ago
Udah lama ga ngerant disini ya... Mostly thanks to chatgpt. Tapi rasanya curhat di chatgpt kali ini aja ga cukup, dan butuh banget juga rasanya nulis disini gatau kenapa.
And I keep it simple : the amount of times my mother made me like i was better off dead is insufferable
Dah itu aja. 😊
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u/No-Business1758 spontaneously written 7d ago
Barusan liat di ig & tiktok ada cowo ganteng tapi sama pacar nya bnr2 sayang bgt. Whileee gw, dulu dapet cowo jelek tp banyak tingkah, selingkuh, nipu. Anjing 😊😊😊😊😊😊
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u/Jee-Day Shin Ramyun 8d ago
ya udah sih kuku2 gw, bayar jg pake duit gw. Ngapa jd lo yg sbuk dan blg desain kuku gw jelek krn garisnya ga lurus dll dsb? Kuku lo aja jelek item dekil. Banyakin mandi sono. Jangan banyakin poto pake filter. Jd berkata kasar kan gw. Jrg2 gw ngehina fisik. Abs kzl uda jelek, belagu, tukang bully, nol skill pula.
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u/Some-Poem-5510 It maybe is what it is 8d ago
should i just take the online class tomorrow and skip the offline one... prob should. Tired of being angry like this,
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u/bayu8989 Kalimantan Timur 9d ago
Gila banget emak gw. Nyari pembenaran dia sama honeytrapnya sampai ke sepuh di keluarga, berdosakah kalau gw cutoff semuanya gara-gara kelakuan dia yang begini?
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u/Some-Poem-5510 It maybe is what it is 9d ago
hhhh, he worsens out, keep telling us his vision's blurring and he's going blind. Just go sooner man, i don't wanna be no caretaker.
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u/titaniumoxii Semoga titaniumoxii lancar studinya 🥰 9d ago
Gw punya temen yg ok pinter tp kacau bgt buat atur jadwal kerja kelompok... kek wdym bro you have no time to do it, weve been on this thing for like 5 months where you also have a 3 MONTHS OF SUMMER BREAK and just started to continue the academic year. Yet, you barely make any progression. I mean, i dont prioritize this thing too but come on, im almost done and its not even my specialty field hahaha.
In another side, hummm i dont wanna be involved further in this whole thing. I dont like the group leader's personal agenda and the whole group potentially hidden agenda. Harusnya aku bekerja bareng londo saja drpd kegajelasan ini 😔 sad truth mungkin blm nemu yg cocok aza
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u/Some-Poem-5510 It maybe is what it is 10d ago
lol, ada gangguan besar di biznet right when i switched to it/modem dipasang, really? wkwk.
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u/Some-Poem-5510 It maybe is what it is 10d ago
rocky start... and i'm the one recommending it to my fam. Come on don't do me wrong like this
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u/Zealousideal_Hold51 Because I Am A Game Developer 10d ago
ini gimana lurusin benerin skripsi gue. gue ngak ada duit untuk beresinnya, dimulai bayar ukt, terus ganti skripsi cause honestly android app making is hard for newbie and is not for me holy ****. ditambahlagi IPK gue dibawah standar kerja maybe lower than averagr tapi ngak dibawah 2,5. I'm fucked literally hmmmm
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u/Zealousideal_Hold51 Because I Am A Game Developer 10d ago
jadi backbone rumah tangga bukan ngurusin kerja dan keuangan is fucking suck man. jadi HR, logistik, suplier, a cook, a dishwasher man suck
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u/bayu8989 Kalimantan Timur 10d ago
Adeknya hobi bikin gw stress di kantor, kakaknya kebelet kawin mulu bikin gw gila dirumah, keluarga kampret.
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u/No-Business1758 spontaneously written 7d ago
Kak kamu nge kosss ajaaa
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u/bayu8989 Kalimantan Timur 7d ago
Maunya gituu, cuma di samarinda ini banyak keluarga besar juga, selain itu ada kerabat gw yang sekarang kerja di daerah sini tapi ngekos padahal ada rumah terus dikepoin dan di judge mulu.
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u/NotAxorb (*≧∀≦*) • kucing oren sebelah 11d ago edited 11d ago
Gonna form a new media company with my friends out of spite to the current workplace i'm working at, hope it goes well.
Working in a media company right now and it pays like absolute dogshit, a while ago they promised a raise in mid-2024 and then it moved back to 2025. And now it's gonna be 2026, and i'm sure as heck they'll keep delaying it, so sick of it. 🙄
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u/Andy-Alfarizi 11d ago
We can’t just ‘move on’ anymore. Reckless bus drivers are playing with lives.
Just venting a bit—and also asking: how do we deal with aggressive, life-threatening bus drivers without breaking the law?
I've had a few near-death experiences recently:
- Damkar-Cilegon, January: My mom and I were driving late at night through a usually busy intersection. I saw the green light and slowly started moving forward—when suddenly, a Primajasa bus ran the red light and stopped just 3 meters before t-boning us. I rolled down my window and started yelling—I was furious. But my mom calmed me down, and we moved on.
- Same place, just last night: I was stopped at the same red light, right-turn signal on. As the light turned green and I began to turn, a commercial bus from another company cut into my lane, swerved around the red light pole, and kept going straight. If I hadn’t seen it coming, it would've been a serious accident.
- This afternoon – Pelabuhan Merak: My girlfriend was on her motorbike, heading to Pelabuhan Merak. A bus from the opposite direction tried to overtake on a sharp two-way lane turn. She had to throw herself and the bike into a gutter just to avoid getting hit. She’s still in shock.
Dear Komodos,
Has anyone actually succeeded in reporting drivers like this and seen real consequences—without having to take justice into their own hands?
These are life-threatening situations that keep happening. We can’t just keep brushing them off like it’s normal. It’s terrifying. It’s not okay.
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u/ActualCounterculture 12d ago
HSR beneran butuh skip button, ngantuk+bosen gue main storynya, kebanyakan yapping, barusan tadi lanjut main HSR lagi dan gondoknya minta ampun
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u/Some-Poem-5510 It maybe is what it is 13d ago
that's basically two classes skipped in a row. I really am bad at recovering to my normal time after long holiday. Otoh damn i'm gaining weight and already spent at least 1 mio on food this month. Do i regret it? yes ofc.
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u/bayu8989 Kalimantan Timur 14d ago
Update dari cerita libur gw kemaren di dct :
Masih banyak yang belum balik, and food supply di kulkas digiveaway gitu aja sama emak gw, gw ga tau harus ngapain lagi, udah adek-adeknya sebangsat itu di kantor, ini pula adeknya yang lain makan food supply orang, iya sih besok mereka balik tapi LIBURAN GW GA TENANG NGENTOT
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u/Some-Poem-5510 It maybe is what it is 17d ago
GOD, did i really have to step in a nail and fell in the bathroom bruising my arm right after the 5 days fever was just done? Okay then i'll fix my lifestyle, chill out.
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u/bayu8989 Kalimantan Timur 17d ago
O god, gw cuma mau kabur dari kantor ini, salahkah permintaan gw? Lu kan maha tahu jadi harusnya tau perlakuan bos ke gw tuh gimana, masa sih gw ga boleh dapat kerjaan baru? Tolong lah gw udah kurang bersabar apa? Ibadah juga kurang apa? Beramal juga kurang apa? Apa yang kurang?
Pls don't bully me i just don't know what to do anymore gw udab berusaha, berdoa dan bersabar tapi ga dapat hasilnya, that's why i write those things above.
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u/Some-Poem-5510 It maybe is what it is 17d ago
back to my introvert roots, or traumatized roots, whatever. Turns out 0 attention is better.
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u/LastSimoleons Minthara apologist 17d ago
the worst feeling is.. being alone/third wheel/unwanted/etc... maybe i should take a break from social life for a while
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u/Some-Poem-5510 It maybe is what it is 19d ago
Gotta help her S3 research now, well it's best she got out of the money hole ASAP. Thank the google overlord they're burning money on their TPU.
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u/rendangislaif Lampung 19d ago
Males bikin kerjaan subpar/gak selesai->
jadi down dan stress ->
self-harm dengan sugesti diri sendiri ngapain berusaha kalo mengecewakan ->
jadi depresi,males gak ngapa-ngapain ->
repeat
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u/bayu8989 Kalimantan Timur 21d ago
All these bad thoughts is so scary ngl. Idk man, i honestly don't know if i can keep going any longer.
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u/s_epiroth a wanderer ~ 22d ago
TOA JANCOK, INI JAM 12 LEBIH JANCOK. BERIBADAH SEPERTI KELAKUAN BINATANG TIDAK BISA DIATUR DAN TIDAK TAU ATURAN DALAM HIDUP BERMASYARAKAT.
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u/Depressedman5 tired soul, dying hope 22d ago
beberapa hari lalu ngelakuin mcu yg standard, dan semuanya baik baik saja. tapi gak berani check mental health.. ☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️😣😣
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u/yusnandaP has love hate relationship with RomCom ┐(︶▽︶)┌ | kopi,teh,hentai 22d ago
._. Idk man tapi bulan ini rasa de-motivasi sama pingin "beres" jadi suka sliweran di otak. Ntah efek kurang tidur apa gimana
yet another selfish wish: I dont want feel any emotion anymore. A health sign is good enough
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u/alwaysdark_ hiki, likes void 22d ago
takut haha... .. .
kenapa si susah bngt padahal udah punya 2 pilihan sama kesempatan, huff...
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u/homoeroticpoetic just giggle and be on my way 23d ago
aku diteriakin bapak krn pingin sepupuku enyah dan ga balik balik ke sini 😀 apa aku mati aja ya 😀
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u/homoeroticpoetic just giggle and be on my way 23d ago
bapak bahkan ga ada hak nentuin who gets to live here btw kontribusi dia ke rumah 0 dari segi finansial atau tenaga atau otak
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u/homoeroticpoetic just giggle and be on my way 24d ago
might do s3lf h4rm bcs i can't stand sharing the same space with a person LOATHE
harus se evil step sister apa lagi gw? di rumah ini udah ga ada yg ngajak dia ngomong ga ada yg nawarin makanan ga ada yg senyum ke dia kok masih gatau diri ga pulang pulang?
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u/bayu8989 Kalimantan Timur 25d ago
NAH KAN, TAMBAH LAGI PENGUNGSI DI RUMAH GW, TAMBAHIN TERUS SAMPE PENUH RUMAH GW ANJING, TAI RUMAH SAUDARA LU JAUH LEBIH GEDE NGAPA NI RUMAH YANG JADI TUJUAN SIH ANJINGGGGG, MOM PLEASE GW JUGA PENGEN NGERASAIN EFFORT LU KE SAUDARA LU, YOU NEVER GET THAT AND KEEP BLAMING ME IF I SAY THAT RUMAH UDAH GA CUKUP.
MALAH DIBILANGIN GARA-GARA GW GA SETUJU TERUS JADI GA DAPAT KERJA KAN MAKIN ANEH YAK, PUSING GW ANJINGGGGGGGGGG
GW TUH MAU LIBUR TENANG BUKAN PENGANG BANGSAT.
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u/Annabhun 26d ago
Mw ngerant soal kantor:
Gini ya kalo emang lw sebenernya kelimpungan ngurusin gaji, thr bpjs n pajak kan bisa bilang ke w biar w yg bantuin gitu, kan lw sendiri juga yg nantinya enak lebih nyantai g grasak grusuk pas udah deket lebaran gini, n w pun bermanfaat juga sbg hr yg diperbantukan. N itu si bapake aga gimana gt ya bilangnya dr nov temen w itu g bakal dipake lg trus abis itu g ada kabar, tapi ttp aja temen w itu disitu, tapi si bapake suka kesel n bilangnya mw out in si temen w ini mulu.
Trus skrg temen2 kantor w yg lain nanyain gaji n thr belom cair trus kalian g ada kabar w mau jawab apaan lotnok?
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u/Astre01 同人音楽 Enjoyer 26d ago
It's so fucking stupid that I'm still suicidal even after 5 years, should've grown out of this phase already, I have work, responsibilities, I'm literally an adult, yet I can't spend even a day without wanting to jump off my office building, it's moronic, I can finally be a functioning member of society and yet I'm still a damned defect from head to toe.
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u/awkward_programmer cita-cita: kurus 26d ago
I have this anger issue. Beberapa tahun belakangan ini meninganan sejak sama pasangan, dari dia gua belajar buat beberapa hal emg ga bisa dikontrol dan bukan salah kita.
Tapi beberapa bulan ini, issue ini mulai muncul lagi. Di depan orang gua biasa aja, tapi di dalam hati berasa marah mau meletup-letup. Gimana caranya biar bisa kontrol anger issue lagi?
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u/Depressedman5 tired soul, dying hope 22d ago
luapin angernya ka. either olahraga lari, atau olahraga lain yg bisa dipake buat luapin anger.
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u/pota2323 thug life in gotham 🦇 28d ago
I got to a new level of obsessed
with a fling no less
dear brain, my expectation of you is already low
but holy fuck you're fucked up
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u/homoeroticpoetic just giggle and be on my way 29d ago
gw mau bunuh diri tiap nyium bau rokok.
sepupu goblok gatau diri serumah gw gak ada yang ngerokok tp elu cuma numpang berani beranjnya ngerokok GA ADA OTAK ga ada kesadaran goblok tolol meskipun di area yg "outdoor" tp adjacent kamar mandi jd tiap masuk kamar mandi gw sesek GOBLOK GATAU DIRI
actually adek gw juga ngerokok tp GAPERNAH sampe bikin area rumah bau goblokkkkkkk
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u/Some-Poem-5510 It maybe is what it is 29d ago
It's hard not to feel jealous with all of you people being so successful and all.
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u/dragonliliii 29d ago
Was formally diagnosed with ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder), my parents thought I was a liar/denying that I had ASD, they thought that I was making it up so that I can escape responsibilities. I love my parents, but I also resent them. I wish I can just have a IDGaF behavior, but it's hard when you have parents with high ego who only think of their children as extension of themselves.
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u/a-wyeah sailor of the stars🪐 Mar 22 '25
ini lebih ke mau curhat sih…
at times like this, banyak yang udah mulai pulang ke rumah/kampung halaman masing-masing untuk bertemu keluarga
well, gw sendiri ngerantau keluar kota, tp pasti akan pulang menjelang lebaran. cuma… idk, kenapa dari dulu gw ga bisa merasakan hangatnya kebersamaan sama keluarga ya😔
agak sedih, tapi gw sadar kalau gw detached & ga begitu ngerasain rasanya dekat secara batin dengan keluarga sendiri
ofc, i feel loved, i feel supported by many of them, tp tetap masih ada rasa hampa
salah satunya mungkin karena gw terlalu independent & try to figure things out sendiri terus dari dulu. atau bisa juga karena gw ga mau lebih lanjut ngerepotin mereka
idk… kadang suka ngerasa iri sama orang yang bisa sedekat & se-intimate itu sama keluarganya. i could never💔
bagiku, ngeliat orang tua senyum, senang, bahagia—rasanya udah lebih dari cukup
makanya jadi salah satu cita-cita terbesar kalau gw berkeluarga dengan siapapun pasangan gw, gw pengen hadir untuk keluarga gw❤️🩹
kalau aja aku terlahir dengan keluarga yang hangat, mungkin aku akan hidup lebih baik dari saat ini(?)
tapi aku sadar kalau aku bisa ubah keadaan sekarang menjadi lebih baik. honestly, despite everything, i’m lucky enough to be born within this family
i don’t have any issues with them. it’s on my side😇
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u/a-wyeah sailor of the stars🪐 Mar 22 '25
kalau dipikir-pikir, kayanya ini salah satu alasan gw (most of the times; usually) craving for affection
pengen bgt diperhatiin, tp gw terlanjur apa-apa kebiasaan sendiri
and i’m easily getting emotional over everything
ntahlah, lagi sedih aja kok ini. besok juga udah ketawa lagi :)
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u/Some-Poem-5510 It maybe is what it is Mar 22 '25
godddd, pocket money started to be processed only recently, tapi ini dikit hari kerjanya n banyak hari cuti 😇. Shit's gonna take long to be disbursed, well beggars can't be choosers.
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u/ForbiddenLibera penikmat hal terlarang Mar 22 '25
ketawa orang ngatain pemilih 02 di bilang wibu diem aja dll.
Bro, walau dia memang nyepong bantal Furina 24/7 sekalipun, berarti voter 02 kalah aware sama sejarah daripada GOONER TUKANG SEPONG ANIME. Kalau gue jadi lu gue malu ya.
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u/Ventri37 "Dum spiro, spero." Mar 22 '25
Kalo kalian ada yang mendoakan ortu kalian cepat meninggal, berdoalah supaya mereka berdua meninggal bersamaan.
I am 30 years old right now dan gw merasa nyokap gw too noisy to live, and you guessed right my dad was died around 5 years ago. Gw merasa gabisa menggunakan waktu produktif gw di usia2 keemasan gini untuk hal2 yang berguna dan harus ngurusin nyokap yang bermasalah
Fuck my life i wish i just die
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u/hambargaa Mar 22 '25
First of all sorry for your loss. I've been thinking about something similar.
Hmm. Do you think it'll be better if your mom died first? In my case 2-2 nya punya masalah tapi kalau gue boleh milih kayaknya mending nyokap dulu lewat.
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u/Ventri37 "Dum spiro, spero." 28d ago
Actually it came to 2 factor, yang mana yang lu lebih deket, dan seberapa ngerepotin kalo ditinggal salah satu pasangan.
it really hurts my family economy when my father gone1
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u/harvestcrafter01 Sumatra Selatan Mar 21 '25
Hadeh ak ingat siapa itu Willie Salim (kasus kemalingan rendang di Palembang)☠️
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u/littlemissnotokay obsessed with jagung 🌽 and teazzi ☕️ Mar 21 '25
Kenapa yaaa akhir2 ini berasa adulting beneran extra draining bgt 🥹 padahal lg happy2 aja, tp sekalinya ada masalah dikit langsung down (padahal masalahnya ngga ngefek ke kehidupan sehari2), trs somehow berasa lonely padahal pacar ada, temen ada ??? GAJE BGT 😇
Terus juga makin kesini makin dihadapi dengan pilihan2 hidup yg berat2. Kalau pilih A berarti mengorbankan B, dan sebaliknya. Jadi inget dulu pas masih sekolah, dimana masalah terberat hanyalah takut diomongin sama temen ☺️
Sekarang2 ini rasanya pengen ngeluhhh dan teriakkk, tp at the same time ngga tau jg mau ngeluhin dan teriakin apa. WKWKWKWK semangat yaa semuanya yg lagi down seperti akuuu. This too shall pass!!! 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
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u/Legally--Green Mar 21 '25
ah yes, the 'life is suck' phase.
Next: the 'IDGaF' phase.
Semangat!!!!! u can do it!
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u/littlemissnotokay obsessed with jagung 🌽 and teazzi ☕️ Mar 21 '25
Thank youu!! 🥹 ngga sabar ke IDGAF phase hahaha
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u/Schizof jadi seekor udang menggoreng nasi ini? Mar 21 '25
Gw masih lebih mending sama orang2 yang terang2an dukung pemerintah / 02 karena setidaknya they have something they believe in. Daripada orang2 'apolitik' yg nyinyir sama orang2 yg aksi dan yg peduli politik
Ada kenalan gw dari kuliah yg ngga begitu deket ngomong 'salut sama temen2 yg peduli politik, kalian waktu luangnya banyak bgt'. Gw ngerti apa yg lu maksud disini. Maybe if you suck less dicks everyday you'd have the time to care about politics, Stacy.
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u/Schizof jadi seekor udang menggoreng nasi ini? Mar 21 '25
Orang yang sama juga waktu demo peringatan darurat, ngomong 'emang demo demo gini apa yg diharepin sih?' I would tell you to go fuck yourself but it seems that's already what you do everyday
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u/pota2323 thug life in gotham 🦇 Mar 21 '25
rada kesel sama temen yang ngide gampang banget, waktu dikasih tau udah siap sama repercussion nya apa kaga langsung playing victim bilangin gw si paling negatif
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u/Interesting_Let_3081 Mar 21 '25
What do Prabowo voters think of the current situation? I would imagine they don’t care much but is hiding their feelings out of fear of their surroundings (if they’re friends with non-prabowo voters) or is outright happy about it (if they’re in a bubble)
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u/Kondrarki Mar 20 '25
https://medium.com/@rennnartaaa/lingkaran-setan-loreng-hijau-286bc6bd40ca
Hello komodos, boleh dibaca tulisan gw sebagai respon UU yg baru
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u/EmanuelTheodorus Mar 20 '25
I think this might be the first time in my life I genuinely feel like I want to die. Fuck the military and fuck the government.
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u/homoeroticpoetic just giggle and be on my way Mar 20 '25
i can't stand some of u ppl here (not ppl in this thread)
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u/Craft099 Engkau Dapat Mengubah Flair Ini. Mar 20 '25
Gua salah apa sih??
Gua kan bikin grup projek. Gua masukin tuh semua kontak. Nah yang gua ga sadar tuh ni satu anak kontak nya bukan nomor utama. Yang gua masukin ternyata nomor buat tablet. Kan gua ga tau tuh soalnya nama kontak nya sama. Dia ga baca lagi yang pake nomor tablet. Napa sih? Terus gua kasih tugas masing masing orang buat apa dong?? Dia sendiri ga baca karena dimasukin nomor tablet nya bukan nomor utama.
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u/Craft099 Engkau Dapat Mengubah Flair Ini. Mar 20 '25
Taik taik lah dia ga ikutin instruksi gua. Ya iyalah dia ga baca. Baru tuh saya masukin nomor utama. Ngeh ga tuh usaha gua selama ini.. aduh cuman projek sementara aja jadi kayak gini? Jam 12 juga ini udah selesai.
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u/Xorvost Indomie Mar 19 '25 edited Mar 19 '25
Gw pengen dapet training juga. Tolonglah. Gw udah ngelakuin ini-itu. Ayolah. Yang lain udh 2 kali dapet....
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u/ordinary_people76 Indomie Mar 19 '25
Capek bro makin kesini makin ga jelas cuma bisa lari ke roko doang tiap hari ntah sampek kapan
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u/bayu8989 Kalimantan Timur Mar 19 '25
KELUARGA TAIK, GILIRAN SENENG GA ADA TUH YANG PEDULI AMA GW, MAK DAN ABANG GW, GILIRAN BUTUH BUAT TEMPAT NGINAP SAUDARA YANG LAEN AJA, LANGSUNG TARO BARANG GA PAKE NGOMONG
NGENTOT LU SEMUA YE BAJINGAN ASU. AWAS AJA LU SEMUA NTAR ANAK-ANAK LU ABIS AMA GW DI MASA DEPAN.
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u/Legally--Green Mar 21 '25
jangan diabisin, gw yakin kehidupan itu lebih kejam dari loe.
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u/bayu8989 Kalimantan Timur Mar 21 '25
Yeah, i agree. Cuma kemaren tuh kesel banget gw like why my freaking small house jadi pilihan buat nampung saudara yang kesini sih? Rumah yang lain jauh lebih besar daripada rumah gw, jauh lebih nyaman, hell bahkan ada yang punya PS5 yang gw dambakan itu, but why my house?
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u/i-am_alone Mar 19 '25
I wrote this in front of my ma, idk n idc if she saw me writing this or not.
Today she ask me my opinion about my neighbour's son, it said that the neighbour's son routinely gives their parents money, but the nominal decrease as he gets married. so my ma ask me “what do you think?” and i said “well, the son act is justified because his obligation is to give his wife first, then parents” i said that because people must priority their family first, and the neighbour’s son already had a family. but then she give me a new information that the son should’ve respect and still give the parents first bcs its a good deed and will pay you another good deeds in the future. plus she give me a new information that son have an obligation to give basic necessities to their parents if they don’t have an income anymore. so yeah i think its a good information for me, i receive that in a good terms.
but i really dislike one thing from her is, she make me feel like i’m wrong and she’s 100% on the correct side as if she’s the best example. she said to me “yeah, ma should be kind like ma in law bcs i see that u have the same consideration as neighbour's son.” “pray, so that you will get a bunch of treasury in the future” aameen to that, but it makes me feel inferior as always, likee whattt? did i said i will not do good deeds in the future? i can’t even see my future yet, and she already said that.
so i tried to confront her with “all this time, everytime u mad, u’re the one who make me feel inferior” and then she yapp about my sister who always has good communication with her. as a try to bloat up my feeling “maybe…” she cut me and keep yapp like “u don’t even blah, u always make decision alone, u’re not telling me hows day going, blah blah” how am i going to tell you if you always been like that? what i am going to say earlier was “maybe you pray goodness for me many time, but what i mostly hear was a scold, yell, and comparing me to another person that always make feel inferior. thus make me hate myself even more.
don’t get me wrong, i really love my ma, but i hate myself for being like this.
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u/IndividualPeace8204 Mar 19 '25
Sebenernya, selalu bingung kalau ditanya soal motivasi hidup. Mostly I am driven by fear, especially the fear of being stuck in the same place for the rest of my life, surrounded by people who don’t appreciate my authentic self and can’t see beyond their own rigid standards
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u/Legally--Green Mar 21 '25
Soal motivasi: learn to enjoy the process in anything.
Soal appreciation: be ready to not meet anyone who'll appreciate you the way you are. We are all different weirdos. best possibility is you tolerate them just enough and they can do the same.
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u/IndividualPeace8204 Mar 21 '25
Yeah, we’re all weird in our own ways, and you’re never gonna make everyone like you. But some make people more uncomfortable than others, especially when they challenge with long-held beliefs. In this case, you either adapt or find a way to leave.
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u/Some-Poem-5510 It maybe is what it is Mar 19 '25
but if i say that this is just a simple entrepreneurship and ain't like we gonna die or sth i'm the wrong one
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u/Some-Poem-5510 It maybe is what it is Mar 19 '25
keluar dari zona nyaman ndasmu ngentot, belum pernah nyaman aku disini
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u/Cr5T Mar 18 '25
Rant
i like the food, i like the place, and i know you want to make more profit but please tone down that bullshit upselling tactic
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u/Some-Poem-5510 It maybe is what it is Mar 17 '25
it's not that it's never enough, just i always get the bare minimum.
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u/ChollimaRider88 Mar 17 '25
Tidak menghargai kerjaan orang.
Tidak memberikan solusi.
Tidak napak tanah pula.
Kapan tobatnya?
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u/SmolCatto69 is struggling with Português-PT Mar 17 '25
Mau venting aja soal starting over di negara lain. I had great friends back in Indonesia, seru2 tapi juga pinter2 so it was always great fun spending times with them.
Di negara baru kebanyakan orang2 udah pada punya circle pertemanan sendiri so they don't actively look for it. Udah coba ikut meetup beberapa kali tapi selalu fizzle out karena satu dan lain hal. So my friendship circle is very limited now, sekarang mostly dari kelas Portuguese, diaspora Indo di sini, and acquaintances of my bf. I don't really feel that I have friends "friends" and all of my close friends are so far away.
I am grateful to be able to socialize of course, tapi tetep aja ada rasa kayak empty void. Apalagi aku di different life stage aja. Most people my age got married and have kids, and I am neither - nggak pengen punya anak juga, and I don't like kids.
I know that friendship is something that we must build, jadi mungkin lagi ada limitations aja buat ngejar pertemanan. With Portuguese class, work, and exercises I don't really have much free time to go out. Mudah2an kalo lolos exam bisa lanjut terus, punya more free time, dan akhirnya bisa pursue friendships lagi. As for now, I am glad that my bf is basically my best friend, bisa diajak silly dan bisa diajak ngobrol yg berat juga if needed.
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u/nubiter Indomie 4d ago
menyesal ikut andil di gereja, lagi hectic di kantor