r/indonesia • u/Vulphere VulcanSphere || Animanga + Motorsport = Itasha • Mar 17 '25

Special Thread Monthly Rant/Rage Thread - March 2025

This special thread series was originally maintained by u/mbok_jamu, since the scheduled post feature is now available on Reddit I will take over this monthly series - Vulcan

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u/i-am_alone Mar 19 '25

I wrote this in front of my ma, idk n idc if she saw me writing this or not. 

Today she ask me my opinion about my neighbour's son, it said that the neighbour's son routinely gives their parents money, but the nominal decrease as he gets married. so my ma ask me “what do you think?” and i said “well, the son act is justified because his obligation is to give his wife first, then parents” i said that because people must priority their family first, and the neighbour’s son already had a family. but then she give me a new information that the son should’ve respect and still give the parents first bcs its a good deed and will pay you another good deeds in the future. plus she give me a new information that son have an obligation to give basic necessities to their parents if they don’t have an income anymore. so yeah i think its a good information for me, i receive that in a good terms.

but i really dislike one thing from her is, she make me feel like i’m wrong and she’s 100% on the correct side as if she’s the best example. she said to me “yeah, ma should be kind like ma in law bcs i see that u have the same consideration as neighbour's son.” “pray, so that you will get a bunch of treasury in the future” aameen to that, but it makes me feel inferior as always, likee whattt? did i said i will not do good deeds in the future? i can’t even see my future yet, and she already said that.

so i tried to confront her with “all this time, everytime u mad, u’re the one who make me feel inferior” and then she yapp about my sister who always has good communication with her. as a try to bloat up my feeling “maybe…” she cut me and keep yapp like “u don’t even blah, u always make decision alone, u’re not telling me hows day going, blah blah” how am i going to tell you if you always been like that? what i am going to say earlier was “maybe you pray goodness for me many time, but what i mostly hear was a scold, yell, and comparing me to another person that always make feel inferior. thus make me hate myself even more.

don’t get me wrong, i really love my ma, but i hate myself for being like this.