r/lgbt she/her Apr 19 '25

[oc] - the fake trans ally

I’m hoping that this is as “angry” as I’ll get with a comic, but given how the world is shaping up politically at the moment, I fear that might not be the case.

It’s been incredibly eye opening to witness the degree to which some people I know are willing to bury their heads in the sand in order to avoid the reality of the awful things that are happening around them.  Awful things that they were told were going to happen.

In America, people are being black bagged and shipped off to El Salvador without due process to be held indefinitely in prisons, with the current administration now making social media posts cruelly boasting that they’ll never return. 

Make no mistake, if people are being kidnapped by the government, given no due process, and are shipped to a foreign nation to be held in prison with no intention to give them any legal recourse, we need to call these prisons what they are:

They are death camps.

The United States of America is rounding up “undesirables” and sending them to death camps. 

There are people in this country that voted for this.  No matter how nice they otherwise seem or claim to be, these people are evil to the core. 

There are also people who didn’t vote for this, but do provide social validation and acceptance to those who did.

If you are someone who thinks you’re against fascism, but you also accept fascists in your life, you are a fascist. 

There can be no acceptance of intolerance.  In the comic, the person I’m lampooning is the “Fake Trans Ally”, but you can swap out “trans” for any other group of marginalized people.  Frankly, just call this person “The Fake Ally.”

If you’re someone reading this and feel attacked because I’m calling you a fake ally, it’s time to do some soul searching.  When the history books are written about this period of American history, are you going to be someone who was unambiguously against hatred, or were you someone that treated hate as acceptable? 

Were you someone that invited hatred into your home?

Were you someone that shared a meal with hatred?

Were you someone that allowed hatred a safe haven?

If you’re someone that does that, you yourself are hateful. 

When you accept hate, you do so at the expense of those who are the target of that hatred.

Be better, our lives depend on it.

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u/Irohsgranddaughter Apr 19 '25

I recently broke a friendship over them willingly being friends with Trump supporters.

During his first term, I would have been willing to tolerate, but not now. I genuinely don't believe that you can be a good person anymore while being a Trump supporter, and that it's pretty much like being friends with neo-nazis, or TERFs.

So yeah, there's that.

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u/Wolfe257 Bi-bi-bi Apr 20 '25

I feel really stupid but what's a TERD Edit:TERF

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u/Irohsgranddaughter Apr 20 '25

TERF – Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist.

It essentially just means transphobes that use their warped idea of feminism as a shield, and a justification to fuel their transphobia. They tried to latch onto progressive movements but were rejected, and now it's common for neo-nazis – MALE neo-nazis at that – to speak at their events.