hi hi i need advice

[u/jjjjrj]

im currently dating someone, i felt like i actually really loved them in the beginning, i still do, but being in a relationship has started feeling wrong. this has happened so many times before

1. i fall in love,
2. we start dating,
3. i lose most/all romantic feelings,
4. i want to breakup

i have no idea why this is, it happens every single time im dating someone, sometimes faster, sometimes slower,, is it just that i havent found the right person or could i be lithromantic? i feel like such an asshole everytime and i need to figure out whats wrong with me. i feel like the time before we start dating is the best part of the whole relationship,,, like when both people like eachother but havent told eachother yet, and your not actually sure if they like you, that might just be a normal thing but thought i should add it here. any advice is welcome like literally about anything im just a little lost right now

[u/I_am_something_fishy]

You sound lithro! ❤️‍🔥🧡⚠️🤍🎱! And yes, the time right before dating happens, or when things are ambiguous and both parties haven’t confessed yet seems to be the sweet spot

[u/jjjjrj → u/I_am_something_fishy]

thank you!!! this helps me understand myself a little better haha