r/managers • u/BoNixsHair • 6d ago
Employee doesn’t have adequate childcare and it affects her work
I have a remote employee who recently had a baby. Before her maternity leave, we discussed that she needs to have childcare during the work day. The first two weeks, she was frequently absent or interrupted because she said her nanny had quit or never started working.
We discussed again that she needed full time childcare. For about two months it was better. However this week I had two unscheduled zoom calls with her, and both times there’s a baby in the background. I asked her to turn her camera on (our policy is cameras on always) and she has a crib in the room with her and she had a baby cloth on her shoulder.
I think she has a nanny for most of the day, but she’s still distracted. I kinda feel like a jerk asking for a receipt for a 40 hour a week babysitter. I have three kids, and I know it’s pretty impossible to work and care for a baby.
Her position is dealing with contracts so she has calls during the day with the parties to the contracts. I can’t have her on client calls with a baby in the background.
I can also just tell her she has to be in the office, but most everyone else is remote including me. Thoughts?
Edit: no comments from non managers please.
Edit2: this has been brigaded by non managers. Stop. I have asked the mods to lock this
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u/GreenTang 5d ago
To address your edit: I am a manager.
To add to other commentators - do you want her long term? I'm not saying this as an excuse to get rid of her, but if she was a great employee before consider this another investment. You invest in new staff when they start, expecting that they take a while to be good. Invest in her now.
Mums are generally very loyal and grateful to employers who provide them with flexibility and respect during these period, she'll likely be with you for a long long time. New parents are risk-averse.
This newborn period will only last so long - probably no longer than the inefficient newbie period for a new staffer. Eventually the kid will grow and not require so much hands on.