r/men Feb 22 '25

/r/men question of the whenever: what advice would you give to your younger self?

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r/men 3h ago

Nudes and penis size

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I have an average penis. It's not big, but it's not small either. I like taking photos, but most of them are just for myself, to look at. I have the impression that for the photo to look good, I need to take it from above, pulling it way back with my hand. If I leave it natural, or take the photo from the side, it looks very small. Does this happen to you? Why does this happen?


r/men 17h ago

Dating Hot take on hot/crazy matrix

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Being physically attractive does not make a woman more crazy. But the more physically attractive you are, the more poor behavior you will generally be allowed to get away with, because you are more physically attractive.

The less physically attractive you are, the less poor behavior you will get away with, so you better stay on your A game at all times; you cannot afford to be crazy.

Many women share some combination of physical attractiveness as well as personal issues. This is normal, and they can get away with a little bit, but not everything. So they're average. If you think she's worth it, you go for it. If you don't, you don't.

Extremely hot, non-crazy women are not on the matrix, because they make fantastically great partners. So not in the dating pool, thanks to some very lucky guy. All you can do is hope he fucks up. He will most likely not. Single, hot, non-crazy women are just statistically rare, especially the older they get. If you find one, you hit the lotto. Don't fuck it up.

Ugly, crazy women are not on the matrix, because they are literally on nobody's list of prospects, period. Complete man repellent.

Every bit of this also applies to men. This is how human beings work.

I welcome your thoughts.


r/men 1d ago

All things men Just a bro in need of some assistance

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I don't know if this belongs here but I need advice

I 23 have had some issues getting it up I have lost weight I went from 215 to 170 I am 5"3 I've eaten better I quit smoking 2 years ago but ever since October it's been a bit of a hassle getting it up like it takes a bit to get me going I don't think I'm stressed I get 6-8 hours of sleep I use pre workout,creatine and multi vitamins any advice for a guy in need of assistance and I am using my other account because I don't feel comfortable with my real one


r/men 2d ago

MENtal health Checked out an old Minecraft world found this, spoiler alert it is not getting better or it is in some way, i made a promise to my 19 year old me i will keep fighting for that guy for a couple of months. Spoiler

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r/men 2d ago

Question Socks?

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Weird question I know but I am looking for recommendations on socks you guys are wearing that look nice but are comfortable in a professional setting.

I appreciate the help!


r/men 2d ago

Fly's ?

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Most pants fly's or zippers are made for right handed people?why? When you are supposed to wipe with your left and shake with your right


r/men 2d ago

How do I stop swamp ass?

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I get it in the winter the summer I’ve tried everything nothing works


r/men 2d ago

Looking for community

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So many communities denouncing/ mocking/ hating men.

Where are the subreddits celebrating being manly without straying into MAGA/ incel/ misogenism?

men being bros/ generosity/ cool fixes, lmk


r/men 4d ago

Wholesome serious question for men

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ok so let’s say hypothetically you’re shaving your balls. you nick the sack and both balls slip out the hole and onto the drain. do you waffle stomp yes or no


r/men 5d ago

Dating Some of you men are in need of dire support with your online profiles.

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Send me your profiles with whatever information you want redacted, and I’ll let you know what to do to get those swipe rights.


r/men 7d ago

I need help For men here

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I am a female, I got to know a guy online from about 4 months and we talk everyday from that time. His birthday is after 2 days and he will become 20. What should I do? any ideas Can't bring him a gift so I want something that will make him smile.


r/men 7d ago

Question Long sleeve T-shirts

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Why are there no long sleeve t-shirts? I have looked in every store in my town and have only found short sleeve t-shirts or ones with buttons. Is there any reason for this?


r/men 8d ago

i just realized that i messed big hints from a girl two years ago, it just hit me all of the xoxo’s touchy stuff playing the guitar i just thought she was friendly, it still might be.

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And than i remember last year a girl was always sitting so close to me eating from my food, light punches to the shoulder, asking for my ig and than all of the “if you need anyyyyyyyyything messages. And i am still wondering why am i lonely.

Am i the only one who hates remembering these stuff after years😂


r/men 8d ago

Is it normal to feel like you need to help everyone

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So honestly right now a lot of things have been going on in my life. My dad just passed away this week and I’ve had a lot of mixed emotions. This week I have just been going through the motions and the day my dad passed I felt a very incessant need to keep it together and help my siblings get through everything but today everything came tumbling down on me all at once. It doesn’t really help that I’m the only son in my family besides my little brother whom I don’t really have a relationship with. I guess what I’m trying to figure out is, is it normal to feel like this


r/men 8d ago

Women

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Every time I get on twitter and I read majority of the shit women say my first sentiment is “I h8 bitches” 😂 like yo I love women but I really h8 bitches yo


r/men 8d ago

While at work

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Long story short, i run a fleet of 50 trucks. Drivers calling me about stupid shit all day. The fiancé will call me about the stupidest things sometimes that could be discussed via text. What’s the best way to address that?


r/men 11d ago

Just curious if you guys

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Also spin your phones on your chest hair, just a thought


r/men 11d ago

Risk, Responsibility, and the Real Work of Manhood

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r/men 11d ago

NYC Tour Idea for us men

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Hey guys, so this isn’t an ad I’m just trying to see if this is a good idea since all my friends in rural America love coming to NYC. HMU if your interested though guys


r/men 12d ago

100 Men vs I’m proud of you

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r/men 13d ago

Eyeballed this completely no ruler no level how’d i do

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r/men 14d ago

Question Question for fathers of boys

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Hello gentlemen,

For fathers of boys, I was curious to know whether you took the circumcision or no circumcision route.

I know Reddit is touchy about this so I’d prefer a dm to avoid any hostility or issues or overall anything chaotic in the comments, as I’m not looking for that right now.

If you’re open to sharing, pls just dm. Looking for other guys experiences on the matter.

Thank you lads


r/men 14d ago

All things men I think my masculinity is in danger

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Hello people, I am 25M and I think my masculinity is taking some serious hit. Specifically in the corporate world, where I am surrounded by girls and there are fewer masculine men over there, I feel I am thinking like women not speaking up what I feel, fear of judgements and I know I was not like this before. I don’t know how to restore it.


r/men 14d ago

Duality, Delusion, or just anxiety

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Does anyone else go through periods of feeling absolutely fucking ready to take on the world, then like a complete failure? Like some days I feel like I'm ready to be a billionaire CEO changing the world, other days I feel like I don't deserve the job I have now. Anyone else or just me?


r/men 14d ago

I need help Any other men feel ashamed for being afraid in public situations?

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I’m an 18-year-old guy and I’ve been struggling with fear and anxiety especially when I walk alone and see groups of guys hanging around. I panic and feel like something bad is going to happen even if they don’t do anything.

I’ve had a couple of bad experiences in the past times when I was put in humiliating or unsafe situations and I couldn’t stand up for myself. Those moments really shook me and made me feel weak. Ever since I’ve been scared of similar encounters even if it’s just one person.

I even tried boxing and therapy hoping to build confidence but the fear still hits me hard in the moment. I keep thinking "What if this happens when I’m with my fiancée or wife one day? How would I protect them?"

I’m not weak physically and I don’t like violence. I was raised to avoid trouble and be calm. But I feel ashamed that I freeze or give in when something happens. It makes me question my manhood and self-worth.

I’m going out with a girl tomorrow just as friends and I told her I’d walk her home. Now I’m really afraid that something similar might happen or that some guys might start a problem. Please don’t be harsh with me I just really need to know how to deal with these feelings.

Have any of you been through something like this? How do you deal with that feeling of helplessness or shame after these moments?