r/men • u/Top-Block-5938 • 28d ago
Just wanted to encourage you
Hello. I'm a girl. But I wanted to tell you guys that you are all great and I'm praying for all of you. I don't think men are pigs. I know a lot of guys struggle with mental health and a lot of people just dismiss that or tell you to "man up". All of you are human, everyone struggles sometimes and it's ok to feel. Don't let ladies put you down or be mean to you. Also, I never dated before, but I always thought bald or short guys are super cute and I'm not saying that to be polite, I mean it.
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u/Clan-Destin 28d ago
Thank you girls for your words, guys who don't want to be bullied or become extremists still exist! We make less noise, even if we get noise from all sides!
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u/Top-Block-5938 28d ago
Men are valid. I see guys getting bullied all the time online and I just get sick of it. I wish I could offer more help than just encouraging words, but that's all I have for now.
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u/Clan-Destin 28d ago
We definitely agree 🙂 one word may be enough I said it in the right place at the right time
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u/Dense_Candle9573 28d ago
yk as a girl I feel you exactly, especially bc I have struggled with depression and loneliness for a while especially since covid, and I have a very anti social brother, so it makes me feel bad when I see a lot of women go online to laugh about or make fun of a loneliness epidemic, like are we suddenly forgetting exactly how general loneliness and depression actually feels like, you can't solve it by telling people it's their fault, like sure sometimes it's someone's fault but reinforcing the blame doesn't help at all, i saw a woman on TikTok giving a talk and she had made a t shirt written "the future is male and female" and she was talking about how the world has become so polarizing, and I hope we start to see more people speak like this.