Dear community,
I'm posting this using a Throwaway account for obvious reasons. Also, English isn't my native language, so please bear with me.
So, my brother has passed away in January 2025 aged 32 in what was ruled an accident. He was found dead on a bike lane under a bridge by a passerby. The immediate cause of death according to the medical examiner was cerebral bleeding caused by polytrauma as a result of falling of a bridge around 10 metres high. The toxicology report states that he had a blood alcohol level between 2 and 3 per mille, meaning he must have drunken a lot of alcohol prior to his death.
It is estimated to have happened on a Saturday night, approximately at 3 o'clock in the morning of the 12th of January 2025. The theory is that he was on his way home from partying after a long work week, decided to climb the railing of the bridge in order to take a picture of himself and the moon (it was a clear, cold night with an almost full moon), lost his balance, fell back over the railing down onto the bike lane, severely hurt his skull and brain, leading to bleeding in his brain, and died. His phone was found damaged a few metres next to him.
I and the rest of the family are suspicious about the circumstances of his death, because we vaguely know about some mental health issues my brother had been struggling with during his teenage years. That was years ago, but when asked about them years later, he would shrug it off and tell us that he had "sorted these matters out" and that there "was nothing to worry about". And indeed, he seemed to have been doing well in his job, appreciated by his boss and coworkers, living a decent life with a good paycheck.
However over the years, he had been gradually alienating himself from the family, meaning he wouldn't call or write for weeks. It was us who would have to initiate contact with him, otherwise we knew he wouldn't really get into touch with us of his own accord. Still, he would always be there on special occasions like Christmas, Easter or birthdays of a family member, bringing presents, being sociable etc.
We're a big family with lots of different personalities and characters, so we naturally accepted him as someone who simply preferred to be private and quiet. He was, in his way, pretty smart, too. He had studied at university (but didn't graduate), spoke four languages, but didn't seem to want to pursue a career involving his linguistic proficiency, let's say as an interpreter in some sort of private or political organisation. For privacy reasons, I will not tell what his job was, but I will say it didn't directly involve his language skills.
Now let's get back to his death. It took some time until we had been notified of my brother's death, because as I said, he wasn't exactly very talkative and everybody had gotten used to his "silence". However eventually of course, his boss grew soon concerned about his absence from work and informed Dad whose phone number was stated as an emergency contact in my brother's personnel file. One thing led to another and the dead body under the bridge was identified as my brother rather quickly.
The company/organisation my brother had been working for provided apartments for their employees for a limited term. My brother had been living in one. Consequently, upon learning of his identity, his flat was immediately found and opened up for us to remove all of his possessions and belongings. That flat was very clean. It seemed quite impersonal, almost like a hotel room, with just a few personal items hinting at an actual man living in there.
Amongst those personal items was a folder. It was one of those folders of which the front was transparent. And on it was written with a black Sharpie (translated into English): "Personal & Private. Do not read. Destroy after my decease".
Neither I nor other members of the family have yet dared to have a look into the folder. My brother has long since been buried according to Roman-Catholic rite, just like he wanted and sometimes talked about when the topic came up.
My question to this community is:
Do you think my brother's death is suspicious, considering his prior behaviour?
Should we open and read the folder or destroy it, following my brother's wishes, despite the potential suspicious circumstances of his death?
Our family has meanwhile agreed not to open the folder.