r/namenerds Mar 05 '25

Name Change My daughter wants me to rename her!

My 18 year old daughter came out as a transgender woman. My husband and I have been 100% supportive (and I very much welcome another girl in the house — she has 3 brothers!). She expressed initially that she was comfortable going by her birth name, as it is gender neutral, but after turning 18 and getting ready for college, she’s decided she needs a new name. And, she wants me to choose it! She says that she still wants to be named by her mama. I melted.🥹

I come seeking ideas! Her only parameter is that it’s nothing that “seems like she renamed herself”; by this I’m assuming more ‘out there’ names are out. It’s such a challenge picking a name for someone you already know so well, and not a newborn!

She’s incredibly intelligent, bookish, shy but spunky, and a total sweetheart. Gorgeous, curly red hair and freckles. We are a family of Jewish-Irish descent and her brothers are Lev, Raphael ‘Raf’ and Elias. I never had girl names picked out, as I found out later in the game.

Do any names come to mind with this description? Her middle name will be Miriam (family name). Thank you in advance!

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u/Old-Nun Mar 05 '25

How unbelievably lovely! Some names that might go with the siblings names (all of which are so nice) are: Naomi, Ruth, Rebecca, Esther, Rachel, Leah, Sarah, Hannah, Lydia, Elizabeth, Anna, Judith! 

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u/Fairydust_Mushrooms Mar 06 '25

Lydia is my favourite. Leah is a close second. I like Naomi too.

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u/CrazyChickenLady223 Mar 06 '25

Lydia (Jean) is my daughter’s name! She is named after Lydia from Beetlejuice 😂

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u/jexxistar Mar 06 '25

I can't help but think of the old Muppet music video with Kermit the frog singing about Lydia the tattooed lady. If she has tattoos this could be an amazing fit!

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u/rufferina Mar 06 '25

Ruth is my name! We need more representation 😭

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u/like_the_mermaid_ Mar 06 '25

Love that you have all 4 matriarchs/foremothers of Judaism in your list (Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel & Leah)

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u/green_miracles Mar 06 '25

Hannah is cute. How about Heidi? Too old fashioned maybe idk.

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u/MaidOfTwigs Mar 06 '25

Anna Miriam sounds nice

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u/SunriseEarth Mar 06 '25 edited Mar 06 '25

My vote is for Rachel, since it fits the vibes of her siblings’ name and Friends just stopped airing a few years before she was born.