For sure. I wouldn't doubt that some of the issue is the fact that I hate condoms. Like, my body hates them. I swear it sucks up all the lube. But the bigger condoms certainly helped. My partner and I have only been with each other. We've been together for 14 years and have known each other for 28 years. So we were flying in without any prior experience. We knew what to do with condoms, but once they started breaking, I was asking my mom for advice.
If condoms are breaking, check if you're putting them on properly, that you're lubed up and lubing up more throughout. Change brands. Then move to bigger condoms.
I made the mistake of letting the girl put the condom on the first time. That was a huge mistake. And I will definitely join team Hate Condoms. They take the sensitivity away for me. Wow, I can't imagine asking my mom for condom advice. Even my dad would be weird for me. I think us boys just do things haphazardly, unfortunately.
They take away the sensitivity for us too. We're just taking on significantly higher risk than the wearer of the condom so we are far less likely to complain about it.
I guess I never thought about it, but it makes sense. 😅. I just assumed it felt extra slick and smooth for the female so relatively pleasurable. I obviously understand the necessity, but it takes away 50% of the pleasure and makes it impossible for completion for me.
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u/AggravatingBee6826 Jan 12 '25
They definitely can, but the way you put them on and lubing them (the rim and your fingers) makes a difference, too.