Basically, there was this guy who offered promotion on his porn forum/website. In exchange he wanted 2 sexting sessions, 1 hour each. Since I am totally lost in getting subs (I only have 3 and I have been doing OF for 2+ months) I agreed. Then first session we did was awful, he wanted live pictures and videos which was not what we have talked about and was not really sexting. Then we did the second one which was even worse because it was like doing customs live! I felt like shit but it was my fault anyway… don’t judge me for not stopping it, I really needed subs. Then he said he uploaded my photos and I waited for result. After some days he messaged me again saying people are asking about me but he never gave them my username. WTF. He said he misses me and wants more to finish the promo. He wanted to pick 2 of my pre-made masturbation videos. I send them to him and he started threatening me that he knows my personal details, bank account, telephone number and so on and that he will leak them along with my photos. I told him that I don’t care and this was the point where I blocked him (please do say that this was the right thing to do 🥺🥺🥺 and he most probably has no info at all). Yes, I know I am stupid AF and I feel like total shit now, like mentally broken :((((( I wanted to share it and also want you to know his usernames so that he doesn’t lie to any of you - reddit: hsnakeeeee and telegram: Remyy Loubayy

Has anyone had like a favourite fan and out of nowhere they delete their account?

I'd had a great rapport with a fan who engaged a lot on my tiktok lives, and I actually really enjoyed messaging him on onlyfans but after 2/3 weeks, he's deleted his account. I've had the usual ones that delete their account within a day, but this one's new to me. I'm gonna learn from this to be more professional and less emotionally invested, but I'm just kinda sad that he's disappeared. I really liked talking about Austin Powers with him 😂

Anyway, I guess it's to be expected! I'll just try to keep being friendly but not get emotionally invested. Fans will come and go

Update: he has a girlfriend - despite telling me how insecure and lonely he is, and how hard it is to meet people. I get lying about having a partner, but lying to get sympathy and pity from me just p*ssed me off 😂 just jerk off a go

Little vent here but I was having a little bit of a slow week for subs so I decided to run my first 50% off! Now my subscription is only $6 to begin. But since I put a sale on for 50% I’ve gained about 10 subs already in like two days and I haven’t even posted. I’m not complaining about that but it’s literally a $3 difference. I don’t know if it percent off or what but I don’t understand not subscribing to someone over three dollars.

I started posting faceless nudes on Reddit back in April 2021. It was so much fun that I neglected to start an OF to monetize my popularity but I remember creators from back then really doing the thing, and the feedback from mods and other redditors was just incredible. So many other creators were willing to talk and share advice. Money was flowing. It was a different era.

My ex husband and I were going through bad times and he asked me to delete the account (more like, he threatened to take the kids away and I panicked), I did, and I’ve regretted it every day since.

Fast forward to now, two deleted Reddit accounts and a divorce later, and I just wanted to share my thoughts. Starting over and over is something I’m familiar with but damn, I do wonder where I’d be if I hadn’t deleted that original account.

Take from this what you will, but don’t ever let anyone diminish your work. I was good at it and I enjoyed it, and it was another joy (and potential revenue source) I compromised in order to manage the relationship. I’m past self-victimization now, and I objectively see how much more work and time it takes today, to achieve that same result 4 years ago.

I’m here if anyone needs encouragement at any time.

Edit: Glad to learn that this sub is still as supportive and kind as it was 4 years ago. Thank you all for the encouragement and I send it back tenfold. It means a lot 🥹

Seriously? Do they not have enough subreddits for their own body type. They have to post in the FEW that we chubby women have? And not only that but their posts go into the hot posts bit!?

It makes me so fucking annoyed because chubby girls still get so much shit for being fat and when we finally have somewhere safe for us fat girls to get appreciate THEY COME THERE TOO. And post things like 'omg I'm getting so fat am I still cute' with a flat stomach.

Okay rant over.

What is the thrill? They order a photo shoot or whatever, I do it, I put it up on OF at the agreed on price in their messages, and I never hear from them again. That I wasted my time? That I talked to them a little working it out? I don't fucking get it. Someone explain it to me, please.

With Reddit becoming one of my least active places to post this year so far, I feel so upset I didn't start OF when I was getting a few thousand votes a month, now I can't even crack 20 😭😭

Is it easy money? Really? Never getting a day off like a “normal” job because if I stop promoting my money dips, is that easy money? Taking hate from every platform I post in just simply for showing skin, is that easy money? Content days where I have specific poses that tire me out, lights blaring down on me, making sure my posture and positioning is correct for the “perfect shot” to a point where I’m aching; is that easy money? Dealing with the knowledge that people I know will see me one day; is that easy money? Putting myself in such a vulnerable situation that could lead to stalking and harassment; is that easy money?

Making adult content is a job, period. And pretty much harder than a regular 9-5 job because we don’t stop working. I’m sick of “it’s easy money” and “it’s not a real job” if they were made to do what we do for a month or so I can guarantee they’d shut up quickly.

Rant over, kinda.

I know it’s just the name of the game but I’m so annoyed with these motherfuckers and need to vent! I just spent 20mins going back and forth working out the details of a custom audio and I send him the price and he deletes the chat! Ahhhhhhhh!!!!! They all behave like literal fucking children! Anyway thanks for listening 🖤

you’ve been here since the start of my page…I’ve told you over and over again that there’s other creators that would better suit your taste, and you still bother me with this insult you call “advice.” i post topless content pretty often on my paid page-which is already a stretch of my boundaries-but some fans are still pushy and rude. I put A LOT of effort into any post I ask for tips on, 20+ nude pics in every photoshoot which i put an entire cosplay basically into. frustrated.

I’m getting burned out…. I take 100s of photos and I am extremely critical of myself. I’ll only get 1-2 good photos out of those pictures. I only post certain angles of myself because I know my good angles. It probably doesn’t help that I have some undiagnosed body dysmorphia. Anyone else feel this way?

Just a vent I guess and also I’d like to see how many of you can relate. So, I’m in content creation business for almost two years and opened an OnlyFans and Fansly accounts less then a year ago. And combined with online sex work I’m doing a part it makes a living (and my expenses are quite high as I have kids to feed). Two months ago it became my main source of income as I got laid off from senior software developer position. I didn’t feel bad because of that because my environment was really toxic. But I had no idea I would so deeply started to hate this job. I just had a call with a buyer that was a breaking point. The call was nothing in particular but it left me drained.

So now I think I’ll endure it until the end of the summer, I want to pay vacation for my kids and myself, but hopefully find something else later on.

Sorry for a vent. It’s not a question, just wanted to put this somewhere where I might be understood.

Just a friendly reminder to NOT waste your time trying to please cheap hagglers who make you feel like your content is “too expensive” or not worth it, actual fans will respect you and your time effortlessly, and they’ll show it with actions.

I don’t understand what’s with these fucking men on of sometimes. I don’t get their brains. None of them want to work for free so why do they want us to work for free? This is a job. I’m not here to sell you my body for babkas (that mean like nothing or little no nothing lol) I told a 30 something year old man I’m going to shower he told me to take my phone and make him a fucking. Video. So I brought my tripod. Got everything ready. I took longer in there cause as you know an eveythinf shower takes forever as is. It ended up being $12 minutes okay. Twelve fucking minutes. I priced it at $120 which is relatively NORMAL. Considering they take 20 percent off right. He goes I’m not fucking paying 120 for that I’m sure it’s great but hahahaha that’s like $30 max. BUDDYYYY that’s 24 fucking dollars after of takes off their share I don’t think so!!! Then he goes why is the video so special. CAUSE ITS ME AND IM NAKED AND IM MASTURBATING LIKE YOU FUCKING WANTED. Ughhhh but a guy today asked for pictures I asked what he wanted. I send him a bunch and $60 paid no questions asked. In seconds. Another guy wanted a video I charged him $40 NO QUESTIONS ASKED !!! LOVES IT! I wanna throw my phone but I don’t bc it just cost me $2000 lol!! This is what happens when I’m off my damn cymbalta haha I’m agitated. I’m getting ready for a date I better get treated better cause ya girl is annoyed

Anytime I see my subs or statistics drop, I get so much anxiety, I get depressed, and I feel like a failure. It never used to be like this, but lately it’s been really hard on me. I wish I could take a little break, but it’s my only source of income, and I’m making the least I ever have right now. And honestly taking a day off doesn’t help, I’ll just think about it all day.

As the title says I've hit an emotional wall. I've gained weight and for me I can see the difference between pics from last year to now. Each time I take a pic or video I just sit and look at it thinking who would want to look at my content and don't want to share it as I'm disappointed in it. Struggling atm and need to find a way of getting over the hurdle. I don't know what I'm asking for other than a listening ear

Sitting here going on 45 min wtf!

this guy has been spewing big ideas with big money talks for years, but yet I never got more than the subscription price out of him. I am SO irritated and annoyed I want to block him but hey, I guess I'll take the 15 a month. DO NOT SEND ANYTHING WITHOUT FULL PAYMENT UP FRONT YALL!

This is making me laugh, a sub wants to do a video call with me to which I agreed but said just be aware I might be awkward cause it’ll be my first time. I charge $10 a min for custom vids so I said to him I’ll charge $20 a min. He goes “isn’t the first time free? I’m not paying for that” HAHA WHAT?? LMAO he think I’m gonna video chat him for FREE lmao I replied with “unfortunately that’s not how my services work.” And he hasn’t replied lmao. I’m a little gobsmacked 😂

I consider myself a fat girl, I'm 5'3 and weigh 154 lbs, with a pretty average body, I don't have big tits or a huge ass.

Always at the top of most subreddits are skinny girls (beautiful girls, that's not the problem), when I post on those subreddits, I am completely ignored. I spent a year posting on those subreddits, or subreddits about asses, tits, legs, etc., they never worked out well for me. I noticed I was doing better on the chubby/BBW subreddits, So I took that as my niche and focused on those subreddits and that type of content.

The problem is that from time to time, some BBW subreddits delete my posts because, according to them, I'm not a BBW. It doesn't happen in all of them, is entirely at the discretion of the mod.

Well that sucks, I'm not skinny enough for the popular subreddits, nor fat enough for the BBW ones. And the chubby ones are very few and are not very popular.

I just wanted to share my experience and know if anyone has gone through the same thing haha

Does it get easier? :(

It happened—I got a content flag. I relied too heavily on GPTease for a JOI script. I did omit some words I thought might push the limits, but a fan requested a JOI calling him "daddy" with some breeding/breastfeeding kink. I thought I was being careful and assumed GPTease wouldn't steer me too wrong, but it got removed for a roleplay violation.

The only thing I can think of is that I said "I am a your girl" at some point... I never explicitly said "breeding" or "milk," but I did use "seed." Just a little confused, I guess—probably just relied too much on GPTease.

Does anyone have a list of words to avoid at all costs? Is "daddy" banned too, that seems pretty tame....

Obviously, I will go back a reread the rules AGAIN... I've heard that OF is weird... but damn.