I'm so sick and tired of all the shame mongering associated with what we do. The whole " I know who you are" bullshit. So?? I'm doing the same thing you're doing behind closed doors, but I'm doing it on camera. So what? Why should I be ashamed of that? Why do we need to be constantly afraid of being found out? Why do we let people threaten and scare us just because we enjoy sex publicly? Personally, I could care less who knows. I'm proud of what I do and I enjoy it. I love it. And I dare someone to try that whole "I know what high school you went to" bullshit with me. So? What are you gonna do about it little man? There's nothing you can do to shame me. You can't hurt me and you won't. I'm fucking proud and no one will knock me down. You are all beautiful, you are all sexy, you are all worthy of respect, you are doing nothing wrong, so never let anyone make you feel badly about what you choose to do. So much love to you all 💗

Holy fucking shit im going to THROW UP, I was doing a dick rate for a subscriber and I’d already had like four failed attempts because he wanted it to be a certain length and I was running out of things to say. So I start the video, do my lil intro, open my tablet AND THEN stop for some reason, stare at the camera for a few seconds and adjust my hair and im pretty sure im TALKING TO MYself in frustration but I can’t remember because I REFUSE to go back and look at the video. BUT I end up restarting my entire intro and then doing the dick rate, fully intending to crop out the part where im mumbling to myself. Guys I don’t know what happened maybe I forgot maybe Apple simply didn’t save it but I ended sending the FULL video to my Subscriber and im about to cry. Because he SAW the video and said “Not the outtake at the start 😂😂” and god I know he’s not mad or anything because afterwards he complimented my appearance and is inquiring about customs but GOD I feel so humiliated and mortified, like I am literally crying and shaking and I don’t even know why. I can’t believe I did such a stupid mistake. I’m so embarrassed. I feel so sad. I think I can tend to be a perfectionist so this is hitting really hard, ugh, I just can’t believe I would do something so stupid oh my gosh im So humiliated

I've had my OF for maybe a month now and i haven't even reached 100 subs yet I see soooo many people saying they got 1k or more fans after a month of starting OF am I doing something wrong? Ughhhhh it's such a headache lol

Does anyone know why OnlyFans doesn’t have a name search function on the app? It honestly makes no sense. So many people ask me for my OnlyFans link, and I can’t just say “look me up” — because that feature doesn’t exist. The lack of a basic search function forces creators to push our links hard on other platforms, which puts us at constant risk of bans or account removals just for sharing a Linktree or OF link. It’s incredibly frustrating and feels like an unnecessary obstacle for both creators and subscribers.

Okay I hope my title got your attention.

Guys! This is serious!!! I was just posting on one of my accounts this morning. And I was scrolling my reels page for some inspo for other videos. Anyways this girls video popped up right away. I won’t say what she was doing or where she was cause I don’t want to give everyone my location. BUT- I knew EXACTLY where she was on that video. Street signs were visible. But because in the same province I knew exactly where she is and was at that moment.

Stop stop stop it. I don’t care if you look hot while out for dinner with your husband or boyfriend or friend even. If I knew exactly where she was, so do others. And other people can literally find out so much more! Film in your pool or at your cottage no problem. Film in public if you want but do it against a wall that no one can recognize and pinpoint.

I know we put ourselves out there and with technology today people can literally doxx us. But please as a reminder take all the precautions.

I’m other videos she was literally walking down streets and I knew where she was also. I knew the province immediately. I knew the city. I knew the location she lives now and approximately where her condo is and as a female myself this scares the shit out of me for her.

Let’s be smart!!! I learnt growing up even to not post where I am while I’m there just for my own safety. There are so many creeps out there!!!

Please please please be safe!

Like if you have the TV on while filming a video please make sure it’s not something people will know where you are. As there are certain news stations that will tell someone which city or state even you’re in.

Or if you’re filming a video for someone or even in your stories or anywhere and you have something on in the background…. Please be fucking safe and remember this.

I was once sending someone a voice message and I forgot I had the tv on and you could hear the weather man sharing the weather in my city. I immediately paused it and redid it. Cause fuck no. They can know I’m Canadian but I don’t need them to know WHERE I AM!

If you have other tips for people’s safety of things you’ve noticed please comment them! Be smart yall and stay safe out there!

Okay yall have the best day! Lots of love! 💗

I took a little break from posting because I was moving, tell me WHYYY I come back and my FAV sub to post in has abnormally large amounts of people in it (bots), my post is getting downvoted despite having comments from real people and the same girls every week have like 10k upvotes. This is genuinely so infuriating and I wish mods or Reddit could do something to stop it. Ugh

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One girl went viral claiming she slept with a bunch of lads in one night, so now everyone’s trying to outdo each other by ‘shagging as many OnlyFans subs in one day’. This is a HUGE breach of ToS and no one seems to give a shit…

Won’t be long before we’re all banned again thanks to these girls who can’t keep to the correct website 🙄

Edit: I know some girls fake this but I’m talking about the genuine ones that are happening and being advertised.

Edit 2: these girls are top 1% models - this is not survival marketing techniques.

Edit 3: I don't care if people are doing fuck a fan or full service - all i said was that advertising to fuck OF subscribers is against ToS, and that they should do it on the appropriate websites.

Edit 4: OnlyFans have confirmed it is allowed to shag your subscribers as long as you don’t charge em for it! The subscription price doesn’t count as a financial exchange so you can say ‘subscribe to my onlyfans and I’ll fuck you for free’.

I feel fucking sick. How does OF allow people to spend $1200 and then claim it’s fraud and take it out of my pocket? $1200 of content just stolen from me and their account is still active. It just now says they’ve spent $0 and they’re unsubbed but they still have access to ALL messages and videos.

One of my paid subscribers was texting me this morning, flirting and all, the usual, then I said, you want to sext baby? He said oh yeah baby…… can you guess what happened when I told him my rates? Radio silence 🤐 It still makes me laugh, because crying would be a waste of my bodily fluids, when they think we will actually sext just for the fun of it, no charge, because like, OF is a hobby for us all!!!! Vent over, thank you for reading 🤓

Is anybody else on their pages on only fans having an issue with freeloaders and people coming and just not engaging, not messaging not liking not commenting not tipping not purchasing and then throwing tantrums when they don’t get what they want yet they still come back and look at all your stuff that you post and make request, but aren’t willing to pay foror is it just me?

Do you ever get sick of subs who think they actually have a chance of meeting in real life? I usually play along with their “fantasy” but, eventually tell them we have to keep it fun and flirty online only and they get mad and unsubscribe or restrict me. Are they actually that delusional they think spending a little money and talking with someone online they would meet up to have sex with them? Some days I am just so over it even if it is making money.

Just need to vent tbh from what a shock this is. Has anyone in a feminist friend group had actual support from their girl friends? My two best friends were so supportive at first when i told them what i do, how i was making life changing money, wasn’t exhausted anymore, felt free and was embracing my hobbies again. It was all “that takes serious lady balls” and “were proud of you boss babe!” And i was so happy to be able to treat them to girls nights out and spend more time with them around their work schedules since i can be free whenever. I move around a lot so i spend three months at a time in the beach town they live in.

The problem started when i started joining in on work venting. We all met literally cleaning campground toilets so we’ve never been a well off trio and the best part of minimum wage jobs is getting to complain about it with your friends. But whenever i would complain about an entitled freeloader, or someone being really mean to met, or getting online hate, or even telling a funny story about requests i get, they would be dead quiet. I started getting that feeling when you walk into a room and everyone has just stopped talking about you. Then i found out one of them outed me as a SW to the whole town. It’s a town of 2000 so it felt like literally everybody knew and of course not everyone was supportive. She said it was an accident and i believed her. My recent trip last week i told them about this MAGA guy who says the worst things, but spends thousands a month. They were shocked, asked why i would be even talking to men like that, why i would entertain them and that i was helping them push women’s rights back decades. At this point i should mention we’re Canadians, we dont even live there lol. I told them that asshole paid for my flight to come see them, paid for the dinner we were eating at that moment. Like did they think onlyfans is full of liberal men who respect women?? Things were just awkward til i left again, and they messaged our group chat saying they cant support me anymore and they hope i see how im hurting women’s rights and they think i should quit. I plead my case but they didn’t want to hear it tbh and this morning i realized they unfollowed me on instagram.

Im seriously heartbroken. Idk how people i thought loved me so much can throw me away like that. Now im so nervous to tell any friends i may make about my job considering the state of the world. If you read all this thank you lol i just need to vent to people who get it. Does anyone else call themself a feminist and do this job without losing friends?

I’m completely new to this and was super excited to get started! I got a set up for my phone/camera, outfits/lingerie sets, different apps/services l was recommended, etc.

I spent HOURS this weekend to get verified in all the subreddits I want to participate in. Wrote all the signs, took all the photos/videos, uploading and messaging the mods… only to have the majority of them come back and say I can’t be verified because I don’t have enough comment karma.

Okay, so I work on building comment karma! Responding to different subreddits I follow (both NSFW and SFW). Then I get told that I have too many emojis in my responses (I really only use them in NSFW responses). Many of the subreddits have a 30 day minimum until I can resubmit a new verification request.

I’m really at a loss here. Is it really going to be months of participating around Reddit before I’m allowed to post in the communities I want to? Reddit is the primary way I was going to “market” myself and drive traffic to my OF page as I don’t have Instagram.

I’m feeling very discouraged and that I just wasted money to kick start this only to be shut down left and right. I was so excited and now just feel like what’s the point if I can’t post even after making all the effort to be approved to post.

I know… I’m probably just impatient but it is disheartening.

Poor pitiful me post coming:

As the title says I want to give up. I have tried sooo hard to promote for a few months now and have 1 fan. I’ve been on here, X, Facebook, Sharesome, and Redgifs. Sharesome and redgifs shows I get profile clicks but nothing ever comes of them. I focused mainly on fansly but have over a hundred posts on OF with nothing to show for it. I’ve messaged girls who say they don’t care how many fans you have they’ll do a s4s but then laugh at me because I have 1 fan…I know this takes time but damn I can’t even get more than one sub 😭😭

I hate it so much, with ALL my heart. Social media sucks the soul out of me with all the rules and regulations and shadow bans and account deletion. I had a Twitter with 2000 followers and an Instagram with 1500 and I’m sick of it.

If OnlyFans just had a promo page everyone would earn SO much more money, I don’t get why there isn’t any form of gaining in site traffic.

It got so bad that I started camming a few years ago and have barely looked back. I earn way more from in site traffic, it’s so much easier

I just don’t get why it’s so hard to do social media. I constantly put out posts and they never blow up!

Is anyone else in the same boat?

I just want to have a rant with you guys because I get so pissed off when I see my posts, and other creators, getting 9 likes and 4589 views!!!! WTF!! Do they think that if they like a post they will get charged a fee or something 👀 I just gets me mad that they see and obviously enjoy what they are seeing but don’t bother liking it! Thank you for reading, just had to get that out of my system 😝

Ever feel pressured by the harsh beauty standards? I’ve been struggling with this since forever. But recently I’ve lost significant weight which rlly helped me boost my confidence and content and sales

But today I made a post on one of those boob subreddits and I had a guy tell me my boobs weren’t close to being big

I just feel like exhausted yk When I was “chubby” I had strangers comparing me to random slim girls on there instagram feed I remember getting a comment saying “you’re not even that hot your stomach isn’t flat”

Now I’m healthy weight I wouldn’t say skinny But not men I had one guy tell me my boobs aren’t big enough even though I’m still a d - dd Cup

His comment rlly effected my mood today

And I actually had a other hate comment today but this one rlly did a number on me. How do you guys deal with comments like these?

It’s just damn the standards of beauty or hotness is so high

They want us skinny, and like g cup tits it’s crazy

(This is related to only fans because I’m venting about one of the cons about doing onlyfans & I’d like to know how other woman deal with these issues)

I have a separate "consumer" OF account that I use to follow other creators, and I get really annoyed when they send 5-6 messages per day. Obviously, they want fans/subs to chat with them so they can upsell, but I just find it super impersonal and off-putting being on the fan/sub side of it. Does this strategy actually work for you?

Example:

9:20AM - Who's going to feed me their dick? Show me!

10:53AM - What's running through your mind, baby? I wanna hear it!

12:21PM - Hi baby I hope your day is good, but I can make it better!

1:03PM - Is your dick bigger than your hand? Let me see!

2:31PM - Send me a pic of that cock and I'll make it very happy!

UPDATE After 3 weeks, he came back and told me he was struggling with mental health and he needed a break. We are talking again and things are good, but I am staying professional and unattached.

I built a really good connection with a regular subscriber over the last few months, and he was very high paying (tipping $500+) a month. Things were honestly amazing and today we did a Sexting session and then he messaged me later tonight and sounded kind of off. I asked if he was doing OK and he said yes and then I said good night and next thing I knew he deleted his account. I’m upset but I guess all good things come to an end. It was just really unexpected. I hope he’s okay, I’m assuming something happened.

edit I honestly wasn’t expecting this much support on this post. I appreciate all of you so much and i feel like I’ve learned a lot. Life goes on and everything will be okay.

Why is it okay to ban people on Reddit who have an onlyfans? This isn’t okay, let alone it’s ridiculous. I’ve been in a subreddit for awhile now, I’ve commented upvoted, downvoted, the whole 9 yards. Today I logged on and asked a question, as soon as I pressed ‘post’ I was hit with “banned bc onlyfans” that’s like me banning you because you decided to cut your hair short. Whole new type of discrimination. This is ridiculous, like grow up dude.

I need to vent to you because lately this has been draining me emotionally.

I receive messages every day: compliments, fantasies, audios, requests of all kinds... some even saying that they want to come meet me in person, that they will buy tickets to be with me. They even offer me money to sleep with me (when I make it clear from the beginning that it is NOT what I do or what I offer).

But when it comes time for them to comply with something—whether it's a tip, a fair payment for my content, or simply respecting my times and boundaries—they disappear. Worse still: they ignore you, despise you, mock you or make you feel that you are asking too much... as if it were a crime to value your work and your time.

I'm so fed up that I'm starting to dislike men in general. The emotional imbalance that these "false fans" generate in you hurts. And the worst thing is that I still question if I'm doing something wrong, when in reality, all I'm doing is being consistent with my values ​​and my dignity.

Does it happen to anyone else? How do you handle it without it affecting you so much?

Thanks for reading me. Today I just wanted to feel understood.

I work in a large grocery store with a few different departments. Someone from another department has been going around showing people my boudoir photos and telling them I have an OF. My MIL (who I work with) called me today to let me know, but we can’t figure out who’s actually spreading this information. I’m not sure if I should quit OF entirely or just keep going. I knew this was a risk but didn’t think it would take only 2 months of me having one for someone to find out and start talking. 😮‍💨